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originally posted by: rexsblues
I think the biggest factor in Stephan drawing to his conclusion and advise, is that the guy has already been divorced and has 5 children from that previous relationship.
originally posted by: JRedBeard
It doesn't really seem possible to separate Stefan from the conversation.
originally posted by: CulturalResilience
Advising a women to be hypergamous is like advising water to be wet.
originally posted by: CulturalResilience
Saying hypergamy is women looking out for the best interests of any future children is a "hamster" style rationalisation.
originally posted by: Profusion
originally posted by: CulturalResilience
Advising a women to be hypergamous is like advising water to be wet.
In the case of the video in the original post, Molyneux was talking to one woman who was refusing to be hypergamous.
originally posted by: CulturalResilience
Saying hypergamy is women looking out for the best interests of any future children is a "hamster" style rationalisation.
Since I've never been a woman I have no idea. It's interesting that apparently no women have posted in this thread. They're the only experts. There are obviously no rules and there are exceptions all over the place.
originally posted by: TrueBrit
a reply to: Profusion
Whenever I hear something like this, the first thing that happens is that I have an urge to give up. To put down the tools of my trade, to walk out on my life and never return to the smallest part of it. And then, I become determined instead, determined that I will not allow the fact that passion, honour, dignity and virtuous conduct have become utterly meaningless to the modern heart, to stop me believing that I will, someday find myself in some other position than absolute desolation.
But Stefan there...Stefan is everything that is wrong with the modern world. No soul, no heart, advocating for positions which are anti-love, pro-sublimation of self...this man is toxic as can be. The human race does not need the help of the likes of him, in becoming an ever darker, less soulful and passionate thing than it was yesterday.
Both middle fingers raised high for this pontificating advocate of the collapse of the human heart.
On the flip side, if you honestly can't see yourself growing old with someone, with all the grey hair, love handles, wrinkles, financial/parenting challenges, etc. Please do yourself (and him) a favour and find another mate. A rich one if that's your goal. Just be aware that if you marry strictly for money, that is usually ALL you will get. You will have to look outside your marriage for the things you don't get, and that is NOT an ideal marriage, in my opinion.
But those people are stupid. To not see that you are partnering up with somebody because of their material worth and then also not realizing why that is wrong... that's just a very low-quality human being to me. Wealth, poverty... I've dated people from both extremes and it never even once swayed my romantic attraction towards them.