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A stranger asked me to marry her today...

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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:08 AM
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We were singing a song at a KTV bar together. She stopped in the middle of the song and said...

"Will you marry me?"

I just ignored it and kept singing, but I heard it as plain as could be. Judging by the sound of her voice, she was being totally serious.

I don't know her well. We've gone out as friends in a group a couple of times. We've never had a date. We've never even had a face–to–face one-on-one conversation.

How could that happen?

She's approaching her mid-thirties, and I think she's under a ton of pressure to get married. She also seems to want to marry someone of my nationality (I've gathered that from talking to her). I'm a bit shook-up about this, so I'm just looking for therapy and possible golden nuggets of insight from this thread. I realize there isn't enough information in this post to arrive at any solid conclusions about the situation.
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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:10 AM
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a reply to: Profusion

Run. Run like hell.



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:10 AM
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a reply to: Profusion

What do you mean by pressure to marry someone of your nationality? Is she looking for citizenship?



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:12 AM
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originally posted by: eluryh22
a reply to: Profusion

Run. Run like hell.


Also...'DITTO' to what eluryh22 said.



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:13 AM
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a reply to: Profusion
Is it possible that someone is pushing her into marriage?

Maybe since she does know you, she thinks that you will be "safe". Just a thought....but yeah, run like hell! LOL



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:13 AM
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Pinch of salt mate.. Wouldn't take that seriously.. Unless you want to just boost your ego.



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:14 AM
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From your description it seems your title is not accurate. Aside from that is the nationality important to her because she needs it to remain or gain citizenship? I would be very cautious of entering into any commitment with any woman that threw out marriage proposal to someone she hardly knows. Spend more time with her if she is hot and you like her, and see where it goes. a reply to: Profusion



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:14 AM
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Sounds like she is citizenship shopping .
RUN AWAY now while you can . Marriages like that never end well. ( made that mistake both myself and my daughter paid for my stupidity in marrying a woman that only wanted citizenship . )

Be patient find someone you can share a life and grow old with . It will be worth the wait .



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:15 AM
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From past posts, I think you have some seriously fu**ed up relationships and seem to think women can't get along without you or pine their lives away when you break up.
My advice : Stay Away.



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:16 AM
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Illegal immigrant?



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:17 AM
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Awkward!

Time to find a new group of friends, maybe even move to another city. The woman sounds psychotic.


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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:21 AM
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Tell her to join ATS...We'll grill her for you.



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:22 AM
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originally posted by: IAMTAT
Tell her to join ATS...We'll grill her for you.


Like with Kingsford?



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:25 AM
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"I think she's under a ton of pressure to get married."

"She also seems to want to marry someone of my nationality"

Those are two separate issues as far as I can tell. It seems likely that she's looking for citizenship.

a reply to: dashen

She's not an illegal immigrant now. I know little about her past.

a reply to: IAMTAT

Thanks for the support.

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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:26 AM
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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:28 AM
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If she was joking, fine.

If she was signalling that you should ask her out, cool.

If she actually meant it, RUUUUUUUN!




posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:28 AM
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Join the witness protection plan immediately. Ala others, run and hide like hell. Something wrong here don'tcha think maybe? IMHO. Good Luck!



posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:28 AM
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originally posted by: IAMTAT
Tell her to join ATS...We'll grill her for you.

Second
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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:29 AM
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posted on Nov, 16 2016 @ 08:29 AM
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Dbl post, technical issue. Sorry
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