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originally posted by: WhiteHat
I think that the most useful advice I can give you is not to take things so personally.
People do what people do from millions of reasons that most of the time have nothing to do with you personally. Trying to understand them can drive you mad. If you don't like what they do just shrug them off and go on with your life.
Finding someone who fits your way of thinking is not easy for any of us, and it can take time. Don't concentrate solely on that, life is rich and vast and there is so much to do and discover out there. The right person or the right relationship will come to you one day but until then enjoy your life and don't put so much importance on the petty things people do.