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a reply to: Assassin82
I was searching for an email we sent to a vendor when I found an email
originally posted by: WakeUpBeer
Sending the boss that niche of porn says a lot.
I have no information beyond that.
and what you should understand is that if she tolerates ANY sexual harassment from her boss that at a later date if she does turn him down for real sex,and gets fired, and THEN files a sexual harassment complaint, NOBODY is going to take her seriously.
I'm a gullible yuppie setting myself up for more heartbreak
And...as much as it hurts, I believe she got a little kick out of it the attention.
originally posted by: cynicalheathen
The warning flags are there.
Use your best judgment, but don't be surprised when more comes of this later...
In my experience, affairs tend to start off in the emotional and mental realms for women. We men are so much more primitive in our needs...
I'd be highly pissed in your shoes and would likely be at least in contact with a divorce attorney. ( I'm married )
Best of luck.
originally posted by: SlowNail
Cheating in my book.
Intimate communications, fantasy role play, sharing of pornographic material. It's sexual contact to me.
Add the fact that you weren't told until she was caught. That's not being honest, it's being busted.
Someone's been gratified, and it wasn't you.
Sexual liaisons behind your back? That's cheating mate, whether physical or online.
That being said, there's still no reason it can't be fixed, in time.