posted on Oct, 22 2016 @ 08:19 AM
-Oh another thing I thought of-
I have always been aware of my need to spend time alone- preferably in nature- to re-charge.
But it is rather late in life that i am coming to another realization- being with others can be a re-charge too, if you can find supportive people to
When I am alone, I criticize myself non-stop, I spend too much time thinking and analyzing myself.
But when with others, i don't think about myself. My focus is turned outwards on them, and I feel lighter.
I also get much more positive feedback from them than what i give myself and it lifts my spirits.
Others believe in me more than I believe in myself, and in the past I ignore that, telling myself they just aren't aware of all my hidden faults and
weaknesses... but as my husband told me once, it is insulting to them to act like their perception and judgement are invalid!
I sometimes have to remind myself that my biggest fault might be that I am simply wrong, about myself, and should respect the opinions of others on
The last couple of replies you got reminded me of this, and i called up some friends and arranged to meet up with them tonight.
edit on 22-10-2016 by Bluesma because: (no reason given)