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In real life, I try to remember that it's okay for friends to disagree and that it's okay to acknowledge an "opponent" is correct on something. Doing that stops me from holding grudges, though that's something I'm still working on.
I'm not gonna lie, they intimidate the hell outta me! So I tend to stay VERY neutral, IF I ever state an opinion.