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Whats Appropriate Wear For Females in School

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posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 10:05 PM
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Whats Appropriate Wear For Females in School

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posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 10:08 PM
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Someone may have covered this already and I missed it but...

If this was a teenage girl wearing this outfit in school, would your opinion change?


After all, teachers are supposed to be role models.



posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 10:56 PM
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originally posted by: GENERAL EYES
Someone may have covered this already and I missed it but...

If this was a teenage girl wearing this outfit in school, would your opinion change?


After all, teachers are supposed to be role models.

Good point, however I still think we are facing a body type issue, and while a teacher may get to wear certain dress , the school may very well enact dress codes for students, personally and Iam gonna lose kool points for this , uniforms for students, it cut down on outrageous styles and cut down on the strife between the have nots vs the have mores, yes one can make allusions to pre military indoctrination or personal creativity and expression but it works for me.



posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 10:57 PM
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a reply to: GENERAL EYES

Wouldn't that be a parental issue and not a social issue?



posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 11:38 PM
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a reply to: Spider879

True, more "developed" body types receive more scrutiny. She's a beautiful woman, no doubt. But modesty is still a societal concern especially in school settings, where education should be the primary focus and not fashion. As others have pointed out, it's not a nightclub or other social setting where no one would bat an eye about such things.

The whole "indoctrination" thing, while widely used as a sensationalist hyperbole, does have it's merit. What is wrong with teaching sociital norms ofr young students who will, one day, enter into the very real world of business and other social functions where a bit of decorum is expected?

Every day I hear the laments of college age kids in the workforce who grumble about the dress codes of their employers.

What is wrong with defining social expectations alongside personal free expression?

Time and Place.

As far as uniforms go, you're talking to a Catholic girl so uh.....yeah.
Uniforms are awesome.


a reply to: DBCowboy

Since when have teenagers ever done exclusively what their parents permit?

I knew teenage girls who would leave the house modest and change into the slutty clothes in their backpacks before classes.

That was twenty years ago, and I doubt much has changed.
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posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 11:44 PM
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a reply to: GENERAL EYES

Doesn't answer the question.

Isn't it a parental issue instead of a societal one?



posted on Sep, 19 2016 @ 11:49 PM
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a reply to: DBCowboy

It's both.

Parents (and their children) are participants in Society.
Whether they want to be or not.
We're all accountable for what we bring into the greater human collective.

The modern free range Individualists seem to forget that.

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posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 05:20 AM
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a reply to: Spider879

If I were a school teacher and went to work like this:



Probably I would be as famous as that voluptuous teacher from the OP

Teachers, like students should wear school uniforms. This would avoid social class distinction and avoid issues like this.



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posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 06:34 AM
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Well damn, at least the kid was honest about it, either that, or he's trolling.
God knows I could've done with some help regarding my impure thoughts as a teenager, and porn on the internet...
That stuff is just way to accessible and speaks volumes about humanity. It was to easy to access when I was a kid, fun, but definitely damages your perspective for a looooong time.

There are some truly horrible things on the internet, chances are, your kid knows where to find them.



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 06:44 AM
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originally posted by: dreamlotus1111
im sorry but does this look better then what she is wearing?






posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 08:06 AM
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a reply to: CrapAsUsual

Yeah but you'd probably be infamous with considerable heat and with good reason , atleast sexy sensei did not show extra skin nor imprint of her punanny aka camel-toe, dude in leather?? mankini ??.. can as I said earlier wear a pair of slacks and a T shirt even muscle T-shirt and would not draw the intense scrutiny of John Q public , I am not sure if sexy sensei can do the same although I have to differ to the ladies on this thread , some of whom said even with her body type she can tone it down.



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 09:24 AM
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a reply to: Spider879

That´s all very interesting but unfortunately I´m a chicken...



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 10:39 AM
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a reply to: Peeple


Not she is the problem, but the damaged brains of those looking at her.


People are not damaged just because they are sexually attracted to someone. Why would you even imply such a thing?



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 10:44 AM
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a reply to: Nyiah


I swear to god, I'm fricking 32 and it seems not many women a decade on either side of my age know how to dress contextually respectably anymore. When I was in school, this attire was a major hell no for teachers, WTF has happened to those standards?


The standards don't matter, they're arbitrary, you don't have the authority to tell other humans what they can or cannot wear.



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 10:48 AM
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a reply to: seagull


Why would he go to a councilor about it? That's actually somewhat disturbing that he thinks thinking a girl is attractive is bad...


That's just the culture in the US. Sex, and the human body, are grotesque evils and must be vanquished by our puritan overlords.




posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 11:23 AM
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a reply to: Spider879

I grew up Mormon.. The amount of shame, guilt, and otherwise negativity they make one feel because they are not pure is insane. I was suicidal my whole teenage life based on feelings of inadequacy, guilt, shame, fear, etc. It was only after I denied all religions that I became much happier and content with life.

I think it is ridiculous, but I do, on a personal level, know how the boy might be feeling. It's not going to go away because the girls don't wear skirts, though.



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 11:29 AM
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a reply to: deadlyhope


I wasn't raised Mormon (fundamentalist), but it was the same for me. The church does an excellent job of making sure young teens feel as much guilt as possible for being human.



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 11:45 AM
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a reply to: LordSatan

Just a point of correction - Mormons and fundamentalists are different crowds. I'm very familiar with both, as my wife was raised in the polygamist cult, but Mormons are a bit less extreme, as flds controls your everyday life actions, and such.



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 02:02 PM
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originally posted by: SprocketUK

originally posted by: Puppylove
a reply to: SprocketUK

You'll get used to it. Grow up and suck it up. There's nothing more idiotic and childish than our fear of the human body.


Nope, I don't want someone dangling their bits in my strawberries and if I want to see naked people I can go to a strip club where I will see nice ones.


The "nice ones" tend look a bit different when the lights come on and the alcohol wears off. Lol!



posted on Sep, 20 2016 @ 02:11 PM
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originally posted by: LordSatan
a reply to: deadlyhope


I wasn't raised Mormon (fundamentalist), but it was the same for me. The church does an excellent job of making sure young teens feel as much guilt as possible for being human.


I think it depends on the specific church/ward and the people in it. Same as non-Mormon religions.

I was Mormon for about 5 years in a So CA ward. It was very positive. We really didn't like the Utah Mormons when they visited. They tended to be arrogant. Then I moved to AZ. It was horrible. Ended up officially quitting.




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