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originally posted by: droid56
What does it take for a man or woman to resist the lust of an affair.
originally posted by: DAVID64
a reply to: Caver78
I'm at the same limit myself. With women of course. It seems "normal" is not so normal these days. I've been divorced for about 18 months now and haven't got past the "coffee and conversation" stage of dating. Every one I talk to has some baggage they just can't help dragging out or they seem to be taking whatever they're mad at, out on the men they meet.
Swear to God, a woman I was meeting for coffee, came in, sat down across from me and said " Well, every other man I meet is one, so lets see what kind of assh**e you are".
I smiled and said, "One that doesn't put up with sh** from you" and walked out. If she had even tried to make a joke of it, I would have laughed and moved on, but she said it in a very disdainful voice and a sneer. I won't waste a minute of my time with someone like that and there are far too many of them.
originally posted by: Eilasvaleleyn
I am very easily attracted to people as someone hopelessly addicted to love and affection, but I would rather die than actually cheat. That part of me does make me feel quite guilty, though. In terms of it happening to me, I believe I may have been cheated on during a toxic mid-highschool relationship, but I am not sure and am mostly past caring.