posted on Aug, 24 2016 @ 01:46 AM
This issue has always been a battle between my heart and my head. My heart says to go with attractiveness and personality. My head says to go with
After a recent experience where things turned out horribly due to the immaturity of the other person, I plan to go for maturity first from now on.
I know two women in real life who have expressed great interest in being close friends with me. One of them is very cute (I'll call her "the cute
one"); the other one is very mature (I'll call her "the mature one").
First, do I have a chance with them? The cute one has basically agreed to go on a date-type thing with me. She also asked me on a pseudo-date herself
a while ago. The mature one tried to get me to be friends with her many times. I think I have a good chance at getting a real date with both of
With that established, let's get to the relevant part. I'll rate both of these women on the relevant factors we're discussing (on a scale of 0 to
100). Please don't ask how I know these things, but I've dealt with both of them enough to know.
The cute one 50/100
The mature one 95/100
The cute one 100/100
The mature one 80/100
The cute one 95/100
The mature one 70/100
The cute one is so cute, it's like cuteness is woven into her DNA. Cuteness is in every cell in her body. When she speaks, her words flow out in a
cute way. When she walks and moves, it's pure cuteness. But, I know she's not very mature at all.
In the past, I would have just gone after the cute one. That would have been following my heart over my head.
I suppose the school of hard knocks has taught me to be less superficial.
Of course, there are other relevant factors. The discussion above only applies to me.
edit on 24-8-2016 by Profusion because: (no reason