Bitch is the derogatory term used by sad men that can't treat a partner as an equal to encourage and uplift their dreams... but must fill some fantasy
role. Dogs are the derogatory term for men that do the same as the bitch and create sad women...
It's a stupid vicious cycle of tail chasing... it arises from the fantasy of youth and fairy tales and well the real world doesn't comply to fantasy
and fairy tales. Sure someone out of insecurity may see someone as a rival and someone to be jealous over but confidence doesnt play that game, those
playing confidence games are well liars and scoundrels that keep creating sad men and women and are really the dogs and bitches.
I've noticed a lot of people get a dog as a "starter" child thinking that if the two people can raise one or accept one already as a pet... then they
can be a worthy mate. Well children aren't animals, some people like animals more than people... some guys will even see pets as rivals, children as
rivals... and the same with women.
It's that whole dominance and control garbage, like you can own or control someone other than oneself.
Own yourself and control your self that's one of the hardest things to do' as it means personal responsibility, independence, strength and dignity and
self determination no matter the situation.
Acceptance of someone for who they are and not what you want them to be is love. To be in love with someone is to accept who someone is as they are
and encourage them to grow into who and what they want to be and it is reciprocated no matter what aspirations that may be... it does not take
children for such a marriage or partnership to be valid as a couple in love in such a manner gender does not matter.
Of course some people are poly amorous and not monogamous... I am neither of those things so that's something I cannot speak about as a monogamous
person that would rather go it alone, that means someone is emotionally stable and not just trying to spread their pollen from flower to flower in
dishonesty then boot them to become sad women only to get that pain so much that they close up and become "bitches" that will teach people lessons...
whether deserving them or not.
Intent and communicating that intent is the honest thing to do... why that's the hardest thing for some to do? I have no idea except the programming
and the ideas of many different people as to what love etc is all about. Acceptance and encouragement of others... thats love sex does not have to be
involved in such a thing. When in love with someone specific that desires the same for you with mutual attraction to accept encourage and support them
the same as they for you with sexual attraction involved between both? That's in love.
Emotional attachments are many times just co-dependence a need not a want. You want them to be there but really it's out of need when someone can
stand on their own and not get crushed over and over no matter the situation then confidence grows the more someone stops blaming others for their
problems and situations the more they can become independent and stand on their own... but some situations do not foster such a thing such as families
that do not accept or encourage or some parts of the system that do not accept or encourage.
Individuals is what a person is, no one is defined by a group or family but they certainly will use it as an excuse as an individual instead of stand
in personal responsibility. Being beat down and expected to fill roles not oneself for acceptance in family or society is one of the worst
difficulties or struggles someone can go through... but it is worth the struggle to keep going keep striving and grow that strength, that will, that
determination... that's how you keep your dignity no matter what situation or mode or expression of life one finds themselves in.
I don't let people cast roles for me, I know what ethical society expects of me as a citizen and I follow it to avoid complications, there are moral
statutes in my state I do not agree with because they do not understand the separation of moral and ethics from not separating church and sate. When a
state does not do such then it grows in bias, bigotry, discrimination and not equality then uses a banner or group as justification or something to
blame instead of taking individual responsibility for all actions.
But eh it's society some good some not so good but it takes wisdom to know the difference.
edit on 11-8-2016 by BigBrotherDarkness because: (no reason given)