posted on May, 9 2005 @ 09:00 PM
and if a woman wants to bed a man, the direct approach is grand.
But if you want a relationship, it has to be his idea, or he will get bored with you.
Guys are pigheaded enought that if it was your idea, a part of them will always think they were trapped into something, and maybe they could have done
better. I think a lot of men, young or old, need to feel like THEY got by with something when they landed you.
Otherwise, it implies to their subconscious that you must not be that much of a prize.
Yes it sux. But I am trying to report on what it is, not whether it is right.
Just an opinion, and no generalization fits all the examples. But as an old married man, it fits what I see of others' relationships.