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originally posted by: Macross98
The phenomenon of 'white guilt' is becoming more popular, at least that's how it seems to me. Any other group of people can celebrate their heritage and culture, so why not whites? Google search 'black pride' 'gay pride' 'women's pride' etc...and then 'white pride'. I think that there is a stigma attached to being 'white and proud'.
originally posted by: tothetenthpower
a reply to: imsoconfused
Here's the problem with being proud to be anything.
If it's not something you personally accomplished, then what are you proud of?
Being born? Having ancestors who accomplished great feats that you did not?
It's ridiculous. I'm a gay man for example, I don't go around telling people I'm proud to be gay, because it's not something I did anything to achieve. Sure I suffered discrimination and some violence in my youth and there's no excuse for that.
But it doesn't mean people can start walking around claiming they are proud of something that they had NO part in creating.
~Tenth
Is it racist now to be proud to be a white man?
originally posted by: imsoconfused
Am I allowed to be proud of my race and heritage, without being considered a racist pig if I'm white?
originally posted by: tothetenthpower
a reply to: imsoconfused
Nope.
Don't believe in it, think it's mostly stupid. Rights marches were a different story, when Canada was having the debate about marriage laws, I attended meetings and fought for my right to be married along with the rest of them.
But it had very little to do with me being proud to be gay.
originally posted by: tigertatzen
a reply to: imsoconfused
Who exactly was it that told you that you were supposed to apologize for anything? A better question might be, why would you apologize if you've done nothing wrong, no matter who tells you that you should? And an even better one might be, if you're so solid in your convictions and so proud, why do you feel the need to seek approval from strangers on the internet?
Your OP doesn't reflect pride at all. It reflects a need to seek validation from others for taking a stance, when in reality, pride is more about standing strong on your own.
Yes, absolutely, people can take quiet pride in their heritage and even their race without feeling a necessity to announce it; particularly in a venue where it is almost guaranteed to bait another argument about race, such as this one here. Pride is not the same thing as bluster, no matter how much you try to fluff it up.
Have you ever known a chick in your life who is thin and yet constantly complains that she is fat? I know several. They know they're not fat...they know what size they wear, pick out their own wardrobes. No, they are insecure, and feel the need to constantly seek approval and attention so they feel better about themselves. This bears a striking similarity to that behavior. It is the mother of victim mentality.