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originally posted by: BigBrotherDarkness
a reply to: SprocketUK
Women know who they want and are attracted, and obviously you didn't get your wife by cat calling that has now transformed into wolf whistles somehow... I suppose that has some little red riding hood connotations attached... but she came to you, obviously she observed you and accepted who you are and your manner. So why defend some practice that has nothing to do with your wedded bliss? She chose you... so consider yourself lucky.
What many aren't aware of is they rarely ever chose the woman they are with. The ego perhaps of course may find that hard to believe in many of them, but men rarely ever question a womans intention in why they are with them at all. Yet women will certainly grill a man as to why he is with her even though it is her choice he is... it's a trick question obviously, she just wants to know it's out of love and you're not just wasting her time, trying to make someone respectable out of you to anyone you may ever happen to meet when together.
When men think they've made a choice or have it's typically out of predation, on the younger inexperienced appealing to a womans material cravings or knowing she has some emotional damage... in such cases is she rarely respected and becomes an object of use, abuse, and control.
Sad but very true. Yet when such a woman regains her power? It is said hell hath no fury... and the lessons and punishment will be difficult for any trying to climb such walls.
So no sense whining about it, or hailing a cab for such awaiting doom, take the lesson in stride and learn what someone is trying to teach to come out better and wiser for it.
Much of that comes with age and wisdom of experience... insecurity and ignorance knows no limit of either.
But a law that wants to ensure equality and quell predatory behavior out of the public setting is nothing I've an issue with as it is based on respect without respect then how can equality be perceived? It becomes an area of dominance and control, and the term concrete jungle is no longer a metaphor but a reality.