Just getting in been out working in garden all day . Walked up to coffeeshop to grab coffee and get out of house for awhile plus didnt feel like
cooking decided get wonton mee as its quite good .
@ TechniXcality : thanks
Think very few people in world realise what its actually like to be totally alone in the world as most have friends , family , people they care about
. Between being an introvert by nature and outliving everyone around me got to where made it point to keep distance from people . What had been a
strength while was in army turned into a weakness that got used against me in the civilian world . Lesson learned and life goes on . Funny thing is
used to warn my troops about foriegn women pulling stunts like that then end up in same mess that warned them to avoid .
@ Bo Xian :
Thanks . For most part forgave the woman long ago only thing cant forgive or forget is the 3 years and counting of my daughters and my lives that have
been stolen from us by the woman and her boyfriend theres no one and nothing that can return that time to us .
Been keep a journal to give my daughter of all thats happened along with a record of all the evidence that have of her mothers plan . Found a notebook
the woman kept in which not only were there citizenship requirements for the u.s , u.k , australia and new zealand written down by the woman there was
also 97 names along with notes on financial and family status of men in those countries - mine included .
Have copies of the police reports filed with the malaysian police by her first husband that she pulled the same stunt on . And keeping a record of
every call , sms and email that the woman refuses to answer / reply to . Along with all the other evidence Ive been gathering .
Theres also been three incidents where she had her gangster friends threaten me to forget my daughter they seem to have learned after the third time I
beat the hell out of them that its not a good idea to threaten me and yes I reported all three incidents to the police who picked up the individuals
and after getting them medical treatment gave them a nice stay in a malaysian jail ( luckily was a few of the local police that got to know from
having coffee wth them when they were on break in afternoon when took my daughter for icecream on way home from school . )
Looking seriously at option of just disappearing into jungle if they decide not to renew my visa since theres vast areas of jungle in sarawak that are
largely unexplored and undeveloped yet it wouldnt be hard to disappear into the jungle .
Knowing human nature even with all of the evidence that gathered on my wife will be throwing my money away going to court as the lies of her and her
boyfriend will be believed inspite of all the evidence . At least once get enough saved to hire a lawyer to get it to court which will take five years
of saving to pay the theiving bastard lawyers .
Fathers day and birthdays are hardest especially birthdays as daughter was born on my birthday .
Only thing can do is just survive another day which gets more and more difficult .
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