posted on Jun, 16 2016 @ 01:39 PM
a reply to: YachiruKusajishi
Ok, it may be a little late being on page 3, but if you don't mind I'd like to add my 2 cents to your concern. Take anything I say with a grain of
salt, because I'm basing it all on what you're telling us without hearing his side of the story.
I feel your concerns are completely valid.
It seems very weird that he would want to hang out with his friend alone, especially on Father's Day. I don't have children but I've been with my g/f
for over 6 years and to be honest if we did have kids I would want to spend that day with them. If it wasn't for them I wouldn't even be celebrating
Like I said, without hearing his story it's hard to really say, but I feel he may be cheating on you, or wanting to cheat. It's not so much the fact
that he wants to spend time with her alone, but more how it has become a heated discussion/argument. The fact that he even went so far as to deflect
the argument back on you by claiming that you don't want him hanging out with women period.
I even read your post to my g/f and she agrees with me.
Now I'm not trying to make you lose trust in your husband, but everything here just sounds odd. The fact that he wants to be alone with a woman close
to him on fathers day, the fact that it caused an argument(heated discussion), and the fact that he used deflection as a tool to try and get his way
just doesn't look good.
Ma'am, he's either cheating on you, or he's hoping something will happen while he's there. I can't help but feel that if he truly cared that he would
understand your concerns, especially in regards to your past experiences.
But to be fair, I haven't heard his side of the story.....
edit on 16-6-2016 by Necrobile because: (no reason given)