He needs to leave her, report her, and take custody of the children.
I have seen this too many times in my past. If you do not want those children growing up to be whores, or drug dealers, then you need to make that
aacrifice of separating them.
I hate to be the one to force you to be cruel but again. If you want to see those children become another cog in the underworld let them stay
together. You might even see your own son become one. He needs to leave. Cut all ties. Do not speak with her. Ignore her. Don't let a single word from
her reach your ears.
Get the hell away from her. Have your son take a pictre of her, or better yet a video of her on her last day seen near him. This is to confirm that
the day he left you have evidence of her being "fine." After those pictures or video do not come into contact with her again. If she knows where your
son works, tell him to immediately inform the police to remove her for interfering with his work. And make sure the video includes him driving away
until he reache you. Record the moment he sees her, to the moment he reaches his safe house. Do not stop recording until he walks into the door of
your house. You want that as pure 100% undeniable proof that he did in fact leave her, and went straight to you. Do not cut the video. Do not stop
recording. Keep it going.
You may think this is extreme but anyone who is singing the tune of a death metal song to your son to sgay with her needs to be severed from the
I predict that within the next two years she will begin stealing, lieing, and quite possibly cheat her way into getting more funds. All in an effort
to keep her addiction going. You need to leave. You need to get out. No warning. No talking. Absolutely no contact with her what so ever. Do not
answer her phone calls. Do not answer her at the door. Call the police and TELL THE #ING TRUTH.
This is coming from all the experiences i have had with well over 2 dozen families who have gone through the exact same #. What ever your son sees in
her is nothing more than a bait tool now. He needs to leave her.
If he doesn't you may end up paying hundreds of thousands of dollars of legal fees for attempting to prove your sons innocence. It is much better if
he records a video of every single interaction he has with her right before he leaves.
If you can not get your sons belongings out of the house without her being there? Leave them. Consider them lost in a fire. Do not try to retrieve
them. Even if you have to knock your son out with a frying pan to never go there again it will be 1000000000000000 times better for him to receive a
welt from you over it than the hundreds of hours being wasted in the most frugal attempt to prove your sons innocence.
Leave. No talk, no meeting up. If she arrives on your doorstep call the cops. No matter what get a #ing cop to show up. If she breaks in it is
evidence abginst her. Call the #ing police. Do not falter. Do not cave in prevent your son from coming anywhere close to her because all she will do
is lie lie lie lie lie lie lie lie. She will fabricate lies of domestic abuse right there. Remove her from your home. Put a restraining order against
her. If your son denies it put the order in yourself for your property.
If you do not do any of this. Then you will waste time and money. Do it smart. This is ckming from a collective body of work from police officers. If
you dont follow this advice then good luck winning your case. And say goodbye to your money. Say goodbye to your grandsons. Say goodbye to
Seriously do not falter. Do not cave in. Call the god damn police. You can even get great advice yourself right now if you call their non emergency
number. They will tell you exactly what i just outlined right here. Get the # out. Leave everything behind. Testify in court of her drug habits. Do
not even come close to her. Dont let her words reach your ears, otherwise youll face years.
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