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originally posted by: VashTheStampede
When is the day against heterophobia?
originally posted by: samerulesapply
you cannot possibly continue on with the fallacy that this doesn't affect other peoples lives.
originally posted by: samerulesapply
a reply to: grainofsand
I wouldn't fixate specifically on such old fashined labels there were just examples.
there are loads of words that we used to refer to something in a gender-specific way...he, she, etc. I'd have thought that patently obvious.
originally posted by: grainofsand
originally posted by: samerulesapply
you cannot possibly continue on with the fallacy that this doesn't affect other peoples lives.
Trans people don't affect my life in any way. How do they affect yours exactly?
So far you've given me the 'inconvenience' of dropping the use of gender based greetings instead of just saying good morning or hello without the use of Ma'am or Sir.
Is that the sum total of the inconvenience you claim?
I only ask because I dropped such prefixes as most people I know did many years ago.
I'm interested in the apparent affect trans people have on your life though, I don't understand where they inconvenience you though so I am interested in practical examples though.
...all seems a bit minor to me but please do share your challenges with trans people, I like to understand or learn about different perspectives of course.
originally posted by: samerulesapply
Dude, nobody says sir or ma'am any more!
originally posted by: samerulesapply
I dunno any, but if it's a he then he'll be referred to as him whether he likes it or not.
What's your point?
originally posted by: grainofsand
originally posted by: samerulesapply
Dude, nobody says sir or ma'am any more!
Oh dear, read your post again.
You were the first of us to mention "Ma'am", I merely replied accordingly as a debate flows.
If you are ridiculing the mention of "Ma'am" why did you bring it into the debate first?
originally posted by: samerulesapply
So will Mizz Godiva take offence if I can her mister? Bro? Lad?
originally posted by: grainofsand
originally posted by: samerulesapply
I dunno any, but if it's a he then he'll be referred to as him whether he likes it or not.
What's your point?
I refer to people as the gender they identify with and present in public.
originally posted by: samerulesapply
a reply to: grainofsand
how do I address you?