posted on Apr, 27 2016 @ 02:02 PM
a reply to: YachiruKusajishi
I heard from my biological mother again today,after about a year. It's my b-day,she phones me once or twice a year,usually on my b-day and Mothers
day,or around xmas.She's had to have a colostomy,well she is around 72yo,so it's not unexpected that she would have health issues,but i was quite
shocked,she said her intestine burst,she almost died. Thing is,although she holds a very dear and special place in my heart,i only really got to know
her for the first time around 13 years ago-she spent 2 weeks with us. She is a very different type of person than me,she loves shopping,buying
stuff,always wanting to be in shopping centres and malls. But also she is a nice woman,a decent woman,who has found her own inner peace after a very
hard life,and i do love and respect her as my biological mother.
Thing is,it is hard to feel the complete empathy and understanding,the full sympathy,with someone who is biologically one's closest relative except
for one's kids-if they have not been part of one's life for most of one's life.
edit on 27-4-2016 by Raxoxane because: spelling