a reply to: onequestion
I have a bit of a different take on it but appreciate your question and point enormously.
1. AGGRESSION, imho, is an evil side of a mostly neutral dynamic. . . . with this caveat . . . I'm not talking about force in behalf of what is truly
good and admirable--protecting family etc.
2. Levels of testosterone have correlated with levels of aggression.
3. MATURE, balanced, well-adjusted, non-serious attachment disordered BLOKES can be fully masculine and fully in control of their urges
to express forceful feelings and dynamics in destructive ways physically.
4. CHANNELING forceful urges into PRODUCTIVE options is part of maturity AND MASCULINITY. Digging a ditch when angry seems to go faster. LOL. Building
a labor intensive shed or garden or truck when energized can go faster. One may have to be careful about pounding one's thumb a bit more often,
5. 95% of the prisoners in the USA have serious levels of ATTACHMENT DISORDER. The violence comes PRIMARILY from, imho, significant levels of
testosterone PLUS a horrific LACK OF BONDED, EMOTIONAL, HEALTHY AFFECTION ATTACHMENT TO A MORE OR LESS HEALTHY DAD.
the prison population proves that. The violence among the beleaguered poor and in marriages proves that.
6. Such blokes do not have, have not had a father who's mature, loving AND MASCULINE teach them how to BE A MAN regardless of what life throws at
them. They have not had a good model of that--grandfather, uncle, teacher, whomever.
7. It is MORE being a man to walk away from an unwise, unnecessary fight--just as it is to stand up and fight WHEN it is NECESSARY
8. The oligarchy has done a good job of shredding masculinity on the one hand and derisively cartooning it on the other--into a hyper-fantasy set of
memes that are farcical and psychologically and culturally manipulative toward dead end chaos and deadly results. All the super violent 'super-heroes'
are doing what in our culture? What is their purpose? Who benefits from such themes and indoctrination, conditioning? Do they not heighten the urge to
strike out--regardless of how futile it is to do so?
9. Perhaps one of the purposes of (A) on the one hand neutering men with the least bit of testosterone and cajones and (B) on the other hand pressing
them on all sides with themes, memes, dynamics to leave them feeling helpless, AND ANGRY, emasculated AND furious, impotent AND violent . . . is to
set the culture up for a thoroughly chaotic bloodletting civil war where the population is greatly reduced AND much easier to bulldoze into mass
graves and FEMA camps so the NWO can more easily and quickly be established--WITHOUT all those troublesome testosterone filled heroes
messing up the plan.
10. People who are trapped and have or feel that they have no way out can be counted on to be most irrationally violent. It seems like the oligarchy
has set up millions of disaffected young men to be in just such situations and to feel & act exactly like that. So, what is the oligarchy's purpose in
doing that. I think 9. above is one of the best guesses.
11. I do NOT think the answer is to encourage violent prone men to slug it out more often. I think it's FAR better to teach them wisdom, restraint,
re-channeling such feelings more productively; discernment between a necessary and fitting fight and a useless arrogant one.
12. PRIDE is one of the most deadly problems any of us face. I'm NOT talking about self-respect etc. I'm talking about Attachment Disorder fostered
insecurity --> fostered Pride, arrogance. Most needless fights, if not all of them, have to do with that kind of banty rooster ego strutting pissing
13. It's overdue to teach youth how to behave in an admirable way--REGARDLESS of the circumstances--increasing their self-respect AND
INCREASING THEIR TRULY MASCULINE CAPACITY AND TENDENCY--to STAND UP AND BE COUNTED IN WAYS THAT LASTINGLY COUNT.
14. It's overdue that we teach young men HOW to express their emotions in Effective AND Constructive ways regardless of the issues and the
situation--and regardless of how immature the other jerks in the situation are being and acting.
15. YES, there are times to stand up and physically fight for all one's worth. Those times are not near as often as the disadvantaged and attachment
disordered youth feel the urge to act out in. I don't support encouraging needless person to person violence in behalf of mangled insecure egos, huge
chips on their shoulders etc. That's NOT fitting nor healthy masculinity. That's stupidity.
16. Yes, the dumbing down, neutering, sidelining, mangling, insulting, demeaning, feminizing etc. of the male of the species has been going on
increasingly for decades. That's horrific to terrible ends. That's a huge 'nother issue. It needs to stop. It won't be stopped. The oligarchy doesn't
want real masculine men getting in its way. Thankfully, they won't be in power near as long as they think they will. And, along the way, they will
discover that there are still some truly masculine men left who may say with Sampson--where's that jaw bone of an ass, I'm ready to kill some
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