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originally posted by: BelowLowAnnouncement
Maybe I'm blinded by my reliance on my own personal interactions and experiences on this subject. It's just that I see a generation who will take as much leeway as they are given, even though they know they are in the wrong. Like a type of cognitive dissonance, they know their actions are problematic but they are getting away with it so they are okay with the problem, and some are being afforded benefits because of it (like using snowflake status to take advantage and forward ideas in line with their own opinions, or silence opinions they disagree with, for instance). The PC culture is a safe playground for a lot of them to toe the line without repercussions IMO, they keep chipping and chiselling wanting more and more.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: Teikiatsu
But it's okey-fine to repress those emotions that this writer thinks are icky!
She's not talking about repressing any emotions. She is talking about repressing certain bad behavior. Do YOU think men should take pictures of women without their permission and post them online? Do YOU think men should sing songs in public about doing not nice things to women's sexual parts? Is that how you are going to raise YOUR son? I highly doubt it. So what is wrong with a woman writing her opinion that parents should take the time to raise their sons to not be dickheads?
originally posted by: Teikiatsu
I think boys should be allowed to express themselves with some measure of common sense, and learn the mistakes of their youth while they are still young and shape up afterwards.
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: Dark Ghost
there was an Egyptian guy that I was talking to, and I would discuss our cultures and ideologies ( often we conflicted). He expressed once that he likes to follow western women around on the strip and take unsuspecting pictures of them I literally came unglued, he tried to say its acceptable in his culture, and frankly I don't care what culture you come from here or even there its #ing wrong to be a predator and treat people like objects its unacceptable anywhere it happens. Is that what we are discussing here? if not I do not know what exactly we are talking about?
originally posted by: BO XIAN
a reply to: BelowLowAnnouncement
Thanks for the dialogue.
originally posted by: MystikMushroom
... because how he was raised, what he knows, what he was taught and believes.
It doesn't mean he should do those things in America if knows our culture...
originally posted by: TechniXcality
I'm hearing from your side to put the shoe on the other foot? What the hell, I ain't wearing that disgusting shoe?
Where The Mind Is Without Fear
Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high
Where knowledge is free
Where the world has not been broken up into fragments
By narrow domestic walls
Where words come out from the depth of truth
Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection
Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way
Into the dreary desert sand of dead habit
Where the mind is led forward by thee
Into ever-widening thought and action
Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.
Rabindranath Tagore
originally posted by: BelowLowAnnouncement
Two of the three examples of misogyny I read in the article were from university students (the third age wasn't indicated). They are just at that age and in that environment. Boys will always be boys when in groups at that age, they always have been and always will be. Unless you suck the testosterone out of them, mischief, showing off and women will be on the brain. The vast majority grow out of it once they leave education and enter the workforce. I'm pretty certain this grown woman knows this too but she just wants to have her moment.