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I don't know any of her interest yet. I only know she's seems to like me according to 2 people who watch over us and others... 1 of those people have noticed alot about how some people interact with other people.. apparently she looks at me alot.. and especially when she walks by me, that's what 1 guy said at work.. 1 guy I actually have no doubt to believe what he says.. that's just how he is.
originally posted by: Atsbhct
a reply to: saiyankev
Does she maybe share the same interests? I honestly think it's more complicated than anyone here telling you to just go for it.
Is she shy in general with other coworkers! If she likes you, I don't think shy would be the word, slightly nervous maybe?
Ask her out for coffee as co workers, get to know her first.
maybe lunch at work together but going to the movies might be hard cuz I don't drive and I don't know if she does.. don't think she does. but for lunch.. we have random times every day.. we know a week ahead of time but her time could be way off mine so very rare chance it'll ever match my time
originally posted by: LadyGreenEyes
a reply to: saiyankev
You can't drive, but you could still get together and do something. best suggestion, as a once-shy girl, ask her to do something together. Maybe a movie. Something not too heavily romantic, just in case, but where you can see how you get along. Before that, chat a bit at work. Above all, be sincere. Shy girls are afraid of getting hurt, and some might suspect someone was playing games with them, so be sure, whatever you do, that she knows up front where you stand. Even a lunch together or something could be a start. Be nice, be yourself, and see what happens.
ya well I don't have a relationship yet and I've been out of that whole dating thing for like 3 years... so I need some advice, ats tho is useful (well was useful for other info like ufos, was useful)
originally posted by: Stringsatt
Stay off topic on ats and on topic in your relationships