posted on Mar, 18 2016 @ 01:04 PM
a reply to: TNMockingbird
I still believe when you meet the right person it will all fall into place (hopeless romantic!) and they won't try to change you and you won't WANT to
It will just be right.
This is very true but it does take effort on a person's part like anything good does, it took me 5 years and a ton of miserable one dates.
It also takes attention to grow like a garden. one thing we have done is always tell each other thank you for things, so we won't forget to appreciate
each other, it does make a difference. I notice that all of the long term couples I know stand together no matter what in public even when they
disagree with one another, they talk about it later alone. They also never embarrass or talk down to one another they show constant respect. They all
have these things in common and also they share their sense of humor so they laugh at the same things.