posted on Mar, 16 2016 @ 03:20 AM
a reply to: veracity
I am not single, but I can tell you that you need to be bold. Not like desperate but honest.
If you like someone, say so. The time for beating around the bush passed. Not like a deadline or something. Its just absurd at our age and not where
we should be mentally. Its a turn off.
Its just people our age have no patience for those who dont know what they want.
You can just very simply, smile and flirt with someone you like. A store, a post office where ever.
You dont have to act too direct but be forward and to the point. However you feel comfortable.
Dont expect the tricks of our 20s to work though.
Being coy and expecting the other person to buy and sell this wont work. Not for the type of ADULTS you want. That is what children like.
Also be human. Honestly, let people disagree. What you will want eventually is a normal nice person with a job. Thats all. Trust me.
Let them be however they are. Even if it seems like someone you would never even try. Lose the labels and know that every ones heart is the same
inside regardless of everything we see outside. Political affiliations, hobbies, all of it. Its just noise.
If you are looking for something you dont even know what, you wont find it.
Accept people and let them love you.
Mr perfect? Like mrs perfect? Dont exist. We make em.
Hope this helps
edit on 3 16 2016 by tadaman because: (no reason given)