posted on Mar, 15 2016 @ 04:54 PM
a reply to: woodsmom
Thank you for the wonderful reply. I believe one way to handle your parents is to write them a long letter, take your time writing it.
Explain what it is that bothers you the most. Sure your parents will not like it, but it is better to write the letter then having this conversation
over the phone. Your mother will not have the upper hand on you, if you do this in a letter.
Stress is very damaging to anyone's body and you sure don't need it. I too have removed myself from stressful friends who love drama.
Let your parents know that you will not tolerate their behavior, and let them know they are not perfect either.
Also if mother calls you about the letter do not answer the phone, let her know this discussion will not be discussed over the phone in your letter,
therefore "you" have control over this situation.
Let your mother know in your letter if she wants to address these problems that you all are having that it must be in a letter.
This may help you and your mom and could repair your relationship with your mom, however mom will know that she has to make some changes if she really
loves her daughter.
This is an idea I just thought of that may help you resolve many issues with your family without everyone screaming and trying to get the underhand
If this works please message me, I would love to know the out come and I truly hope it is good.