It is what it is d

It's not about me. It's about you.

You are a lot more interesting, in my eyes, than me. I know me. I don't know you.

I realize that I don't know me like I should, but still, you are more interesting to me.

it's rather infrequent that the people around me in my day to day life are more interesting than what's going on in my head.

Online i find people who are more interesting...but not in my normal day to day life (not as frequently, anyway). It makes it hard for me to listen well enough to follow along sometimes. I'd rather work through problems in my own head instead.

Im also not as fond of working in a team as I am working solo. Team members tend to slow you down. Its better to just have someone to bounce ideas off of from time to time...but to not be saddled with having to deal with considering another persons ego and needs.

a reply to: bigfatfurrytexan

Maybe you're just looking at them wrong.

a reply to: JackReyes

yeah....in the Venn Diagram of Aptitudes, we lack the primary intersecting points in the area of social interaction.

a reply to: bigfatfurrytexan

Interesting.

originally posted by: bigfatfurrytexan
a reply to: JackReyes

yeah....in the Venn Diagram of Aptitudes, we lack the primary intersecting points in the area of social interaction.

If we would have met on Facebook, after this conversation, which is really not a conversation, I would friend you, and you would accept it.

And you would see a lot more about me, and I about you.

Would anyone else like to join the discussion?

In a website where people are so focal on so many things, to be quiet about learning about them. It is telling. This is fascinating.

And I did wait a little. Perhaps a day or two will give more responses (results). Still even the silence is telling.

originally posted by: JackReyes
In a website where people are so focal on so many things, to be quiet about learning about them. It is telling. This is fascinating.

And I did wait a little. Perhaps a day or two will give more responses (results). Still even the silence is telling.

Your OP is so vague/cryptic/insubstantial that I don't think anyone knows what to say. In that case, the silence is politeness.

I chimed in because a tangential thought struck me, so I posted it.

originally posted by: bigfatfurrytexan

Your OP is so vague/cryptic/insubstantial that I don't think anyone knows what to say.

This was true for me. I would love to have a conversation, however, I am unsure of the subject matter.

Perhaps if the OP would elaborate, they would get more responses.
Other members...

originally posted by: bigfatfurrytexan

originally posted by: JackReyes
In a website where people are so focal on so many things, to be quiet about learning about them. It is telling. This is fascinating.

And I did wait a little. Perhaps a day or two will give more responses (results). Still even the silence is telling.

Your OP is so vague/cryptic/insubstantial that I don't think anyone knows what to say. In that case, the silence is politeness.

I chimed in because a tangential thought struck me, so I posted it.

Interesting.

Nevertheless, just as you felt something,other people did as well. You responded, that is your nature. You showed me as much, the fact that you responded again, shows that it is very ingrained in you. And I look at your post count and realize, that is you. And I like you for that. Being you.

And I see a void. And realize, that perhaps beyond you, there is nothing else.

And that is still interesting. But makes you very unique.

originally posted by: TNMockingbird

originally posted by: bigfatfurrytexan

Your OP is so vague/cryptic/insubstantial that I don't think anyone knows what to say.

This was true for me. I would love to have a conversation, however, I am unsure of the subject matter.

Perhaps if the OP would elaborate, they would get more responses.
Other members...

I got two people to respond. So, no I am not doing wrong. The one lead you to make this response. BTW, hi Mockingbird.



Look beyond your horizons....

Just what came to mind when I read your avatar name...

a reply to: JackReyes

Hi back!
I certainly didn't mean to imply that you were doing anything "wrong". I am, certainly, NOT one to be judging anyone...

I hope you are well and find what you are in search of


"and if that peace of mind won't stay,
I'm gonna find me a better way"

originally posted by: TNMockingbird
a reply to: JackReyes

Hi back!
I certainly didn't mean to imply that you were doing anything "wrong". I am, certainly, NOT one to be judging anyone...

I hope you are well and find what you are in search of

"and if that peace of mind won't stay,
I'm gonna find me a better way"

Excellent! Thank you for these words....can I call you a friend? And Bigfurry Texan?


Is that what I was looking for? Friends?

originally posted by: JackReyes

originally posted by: TNMockingbird
a reply to: JackReyes

Hi back!
I certainly didn't mean to imply that you were doing anything "wrong". I am, certainly, NOT one to be judging anyone...

I hope you are well and find what you are in search of

"and if that peace of mind won't stay,
I'm gonna find me a better way"

Excellent! Thank you for these words....can I call you a friend? And Bigfurry Texan?


Is that what I was looking for? Friends?

Your hesitancy to respond also shows us things.

Why does this world make us doubt?

Be insecure?

I am who I am. It is what it is.

Is this the response to God?

He is willing to be our friend.

You are more interesting than me, in his eyes.

No doubt, correct?

If he would come down and ask you to be his friend, would you?

Now that indeed is interesting.

originally posted by: JackReyes
Is that what I was looking for? Friends?

I don't know.
Is it?
Have you found some?

originally posted by: JackReyes
It's not about me. It's about you.

You are a lot more interesting, in my eyes, than me. I know me.

"ghosts haunt his house just to be near him"

I can be interesting.

a reply to: mikeone718

You don't have to say that. You are interesting. But that you said that, and responded, is still cool.

originally posted by: TNMockingbird

originally posted by: JackReyes
Is that what I was looking for? Friends?

I don't know.
Is it?
Have you found some?

Good questions. I don't know either.