posted on Feb, 12 2016 @ 01:37 PM
a reply to: Thundersmurf
A and B are my only options, there's no way the cats going anywhere.
In 3 seconds I'd pick A, as B is always an option right.
The metaphorical cat in the room is the difference between our social capabilities. I have a limited ability do deal with social situations while she
is most comfortable surrounded by people.
When we are alone together (binary) this is not the issue, as when the cat is out of the room. Our 1 on 1 time together is better than I've
experienced with any human up until this point, which is why I am even trying to figure this out.
But then while surrounded by people I am not so comfortable. The gold thing is we have been able to talk about these things, so its not in the dark
although a balance of how to deal with it is not discovered yet. It's still a new relationship.
To sum it up, consistently having allergies is uncomfortable as well as more social than normally do, but at this point I am thinking its better than
Is compromise normal in any relationship? And to what degree? If I'm not able to adjust and be comfortable over time are these valid reasons for
edit on 12-2-2016 by sociolpath because: (no reason given)