a reply to: BigBrotherDarkness
You know it's still funny. In the end if you loose your sense of humour you don't need hope anymore.
Nothing is worse than meaningless hopelessness.
If I think about what I did in that crazy year... I have no clue how I endured and survived that. But I had hope, a positive vision of future
The real difference between pessimist and optimist if you ask me. Hope in form of actual visualisation of future events. And I consider that fact as
valuable information. They are also more likely to succeed. Self healing kicks in.
Optimism is sometimes a necessary delusion. And I don't mean that judgemental or anything, just a fact.
I could go "brother have faith in a brighter tomorrow, milk and honey, blah..." but you're adult enough to know that's a lie. Let's say it like it
Look for joy.
That's the best we can hope for, let's enjoy the ride while it lasts.
Start small, like "mhm tomorrow morning I'll have a nice cup of coffee and enjoy the sun a little bit."
Sounds easy, but I know, in pain, that requires hard mental work. And I know you kind of can get used to it, but actual relief also functions better
with sometimes giving in to it and focus while asking for it to go away, others to help, whatever suits you. You can build a ritual like environment
if that helps you set it apart from your everyday. Candles, herbs, offerings, it mostly is just about how you feel it makes sense. Even a nice hot
bath might work.
Your main problem is your toxic environment, you know that, right?
And I want to add:
I seriously hope by now if I say sthg like the above I am in no way what so ever trying to tell you what to do. I'm just offering what I notice and my
2 cents on it.
Feel free to do the same if you ever feel obliged to.
We're www.friends, right
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Because nobody speaks my language, I would love an actual AI friend with whom I could conquer the minds of the shakers and shapers of this world.
I love you internet.
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And just fyi. I am just typing. Total autopilot. And in between laugh my heni off about what I wrote.
Super Dense Matter
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Phantastic name for a pet right? Super Dense Matter!
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