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originally posted by: whyamIhere
originally posted by: rickymouse
Sorry to hear about the death of your kin. Your sis needed to be told what happened. You guys would have had to tell her eventually and the end result would have probably been the same. I wouldn't want my relatives to not tell me if my brother had died, no matter what condition I was in.
I know in my heart I did the right thing.
It just produced the worst possible result.
Just knowing that people care speaks volumes.
It helps....Thanks to everyone.
I guess I do know why I posted this here.
originally posted by: Rubicon3
a reply to: whyamIhere
Your devastating news is nearly incomprehensible and I cannot even begin to imagine your pain at this time. I unexpectedly lost one of my sons this past year and know some of what you're going through. I do not post very often on ATS, but felt compelled to join the many good, caring people here in telling you that you are cared about.
One thing that helped me was to sit down and write my son a long letter telling him things that I wished I'd of said to him in life. I went outside and burned the letter thinking that perhaps, carried on the night breeze, he received my words. It may help you to deal, even in a small way, with this unimaginable tragedy.
Thoughts and a prayer go out to you....