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originally posted by: TrueBrit
a reply to: payta
I guess what I am saying is, that if it would work for you, and she becomes receptive to the prospect, I say roll with it. Life is full of nonsense, but if you can find something in your life, someone in your life that makes your spine tingle and sends your brain into haywire mode, then get at it. Trust me, life does not throw that sort of potential at a man every day of the week, or even yearly.
originally posted by: Layaly
a reply to: payta
If it was me and someone so young wanted me I would also push them away ..
I think I would feel like I am wasting your opportunities I would be terrified about picturing the future.. at her age she wants to settle down probably and I would also be thinking why me if girls your age are hot and fresh I would be scared you end up going for one and very last thing whatever mistake or screw up you would make she would always forgive you because she can understand you prob really didn't know better.. knowing, that you would forgive, even if you were treated poorly makes you volnutable
I have no clue where her head is at but thats is what I would be prob feeling
myself 90% of time I never went for anyone who wouldn't be at least 12y older then me.. not purposely.. I always broke it off because still despite the age difference these people were acting irrational or the worst was they sabotaged the relationship because they were insecure.. Meaning they did exactly what your lady does.. They want you but they are always thinking somethings like when I will be 40 and I want this or will be like this you only will be 30 and still not ready and to them it is completely understandable so they would be willing to push their needs aside to wait for you without any guarantee you won't bail out.. if you did somewhere down the track... they end up not being where they wanted to be at 40.
I don't know if I make one bit of sense here
originally posted by: enlightenedservant
most women have much better memories than the average guy, especially when it comes to details.
originally posted by: rukia
Plus, you're a guy--meaning you're immature.