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I had to stand up to my boss today (REAL TALK)

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posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 05:22 PM
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maybe you should just quit and call the cops to come collect your last check before your wife stabs the boss to death.

wait, you already did that




posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 05:33 PM
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originally posted by: rukia
a reply to: wasaka

Listen--you should have never told him your condition.

Do you have a significant other or are you single? I am going to take a wild stab in the dark and say that you're single. Otherwise, I'd think the woman in your life would have told you all of this already. And if you do have a special lady friend and she hasn't told you, the reason she hasn't told you is because you haven't told her anything.


He has already stated that he has a boyfriend who is a midget and dresses up as a woman. The boyfriend has breast implants, and he is very protective of him and addresses him as a her.
Furthermore, it appears that he works at walmart in the cell phone sales department, but spends much of his time in the toilet stall doing something unspecified. Many in here believe he is using a white powdery substance in the stall that affects his performance and atitude



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 05:40 PM
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So what you need todo to keep your career at walmart is this. Apologise to your boss. Beg his forgivness. quit the drug use, and stay out of the latrine except when doing a number 1 or a number 2. Get over yourself

No one likes a latrine queen.



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 05:59 PM
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Good for you for standing up to the guy. Sounds like he's a real charmer.

That's one of the big reasons I decided to give the corporate world the good ol' "American Double Eagle" and started freelancing. "F" those guys.


-=Vel=-

a reply to: wasaka



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 06:06 PM
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I dunno...I mean, yes, that's the approach to take if he actually wants to keep working there, but...meh. I can't stand being micromanaged. I know my job (well, jobs...had several), and am good at it. What I need from a boss is to give me a target, clear the road and get outta the way so I can do my thing.

Had some great bosses who were just like that, but had more than a few of the other sort too. Ultimately, I wound up standing up for my people during a merger and got put in the hospital (heart attack, too many 100+ hour weeks). But I was right, they were wrong, and I wasn't gonna let my guys get trampled.

After that, I decided I'd had my fill of that kind of thing and just struck off on my own.

I guess what I'm saying is - this guy can either kiss and make up, or...he can find it within himself to accept the consequences of his choices, which prolly means striking out on his own too.


-=Vel=-


a reply to: visitedbythem



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 07:44 PM
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originally posted by: jhn7537
I'd give you both promotions and raises!


Now there is a man who knows how to run a sales office.
Get the passion flowing in the right direction.

Thank you sir.



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 07:48 PM
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originally posted by: TinySickTears
maybe you should just quit and call the cops to come collect your last check before your wife stabs the boss to death.

wait, you already did that


Yeah, yeah, but maybe your right.
You do seem to have a good grasp
on the important facts



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 07:51 PM
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originally posted by: MagnaCarta2015
All you've really proved to your colleagues is that when the pressure is put on you you'll respond emotionally, publicly and unprofessionally.


No, Sally. I did none of those things.

I handled my business like a man
and I am respect for it.

You don't know me or the mind of those
that I work with, and don't pretend you do.



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 08:02 PM
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originally posted by: NewzNose
a reply to: wasaka

Let's hope that works out for you.

I'd fire you and have no regrets.



The question is would you talk to me like a human being?
The question is would you listen to me like a human being?

If you do those two things, then you'd have my respect
and the way I would talk to your would follow accordingly.

If you can not communicate with me, or me with you, the it would best for both parties to separate.

I would let you fire me and have no regrets.

I don't want to work for a wimpy boss. Not saying your like that, I just saying that getting fired is the least of my worries. Fire me. You would be doing me a favor.

I don't want to work where I'm not appreciated. And I will not stop being my genuine self.



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 08:27 PM
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originally posted by: AmericanRealist
You have a drug problem. I dont need to prove, you and your marriage partner know the truth. You have zero respect for authority or a chain of command. If you have not disclosed an existing medical condition and are going to the restroom that frequently, it is the employers right to ask why you spend so much 'paid' time in a private location not working for your money.

I suspect you keep going to the bathroom to sneak a bump of powder residue and not the medical reason you are hiding behind. If this were legitimate and you have been having this problem with your employer's than a reasonable person would bring in medical exemption paperwork to present for reasonable accommodations by law. You however always go to confrontation. Something I suspect you learned from your confused transgender partner as that is virtually a universal trait I have observed both in person, and here in this community.

I say learned because by your own admission it sounds as if you were clearly having confidence issues and based on what your partner was telling you in the other thread you linked, im thinking that individual is basically manipulating your choices and decisions by disguising it as your empowerment and self confidence. And yet, you only seem to be contributing to a problem for which you will suffer, not your boss.


So I'm being manipulated to write everything I type on this screen?
I don't have control of my facilitates. Is this your theory?

That is a weak theory.

No, you are 99% wrong and complete off base. I'm not saying you
are 100% off, you got the part about the universal trait of tg being
a revolt and rebellion against false authority right. But I was that
way long before I meet my wife.

You are just like so many other intelligent people, you only get
part of the story and limited number of data points but you think
because you have a high IQ that you can make a judgement and
say this is "XYZ" and label it. Does that make your ego feel good?

As for Chain of command, the first thing I did was go to Thomas
and asked him what I should do.

"If I have a problem with a manager what should I do? Should I go
to that person directly, or come to you, or go to the HR department?

"Come to me," Tom said.

"Ok, can we talk about this now?"

"Sure"

"You got to call off your dog man."

"What do you mean?"

"I mean this new guy, what is his name?"

"Brian?"

"Yeah, Brian, this guy is always in my face about
little stuff and he need to back off."

"That's his job."

"What to question how many times I go to the rest room?
I'm sick. Last night I woke up in a cold sweet and my t-shirt
was soaking wet. You know what is going on with my wife
and me, I'm ready to divorce her crazy ass... and I need to
make money, but I don't need this guy badgering with me."

"Just tell Brian you have 'irritable bowel syndrome' and tell
him that you talk to me about it already."

I didn't want to say that, but I did because I follow direction.
You can attack me all you want with our smug know it all
attitude, but you have no business judging me.

If Tom had a problem with me, then I would have a job
right now. I did follow the chain of command, so take
your snobby intellectual superior attitude and move
on down the road, you carnival barker.

I don't a have problem with drugs, I have a problem
with people like you who push their false authority.

Excuse me me while I go smoke some weed and
get ready to see Star Wars.




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posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 09:34 PM
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originally posted by: jdb51
"Sally" here….I sincerely was replying to your rant(s) about not getting along with your bosses and your feelings of being victimized constantly. I do not wish to antagonize you, I was just attempting to make you realize your anger is controlling you and life is full of people criticizing you. You need to get a handle on your anger, and your reaction to others. You can't control how others react to you, but you CAN control how you react to others. Have a happy (and peaceful) holiday!


I do NOT claim to be a victim.

My wife can be abusive toward me, but then
she get a good does of that crap back in her face.
I am a participant, not a victim. I am doing the
best I can with the tools I've been given.

My anger is my gift.

And I have on desire to control anyone but myself.

I am just a REAL person who speaks REAL TALK.
Some people can take offence to that, but that
is entirely their problem, not mine.

I am who I am, and like being me.

I enjoy my life.

Peace.



edit on 19-12-2015 by wasaka because: (no reason given)



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 09:39 PM
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Now you are refering to your Transvestite wife as crazy and threatening to divorce him. I take offence to that! You are being unkind and downright cruel to him. Marriage is for life. You should think about it from his perspective, afterall, it isnt easy being married to you. You have been pigheaded toward him and selfish. He stays home and cleans house, slaves over a hot stove to be a perfect homemake and wife for you. And how do you repay that? Burger king and Star wars? Thats just plain disrespectful. He didnt marry you for your money obviously. And your personality leaves something to be ...... Well you get the picture. Be a little more sensitive with his feelings. Compliment him on his boobs and nice butt. And when you leave for your job at walmart, wake him up with a nice goodbye and a french kiss, and a goose to the bootie. Tell him that you really care and that all other men are nothing compared to him/ Good luck



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 09:40 PM
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originally posted by: visitedbythem
So what you need todo to keep your career at walmart is this. Apologise to your boss. Beg his forgivness. quit the drug use, and stay out of the latrine except when doing a number 1 or a number 2. Get over yourself

No one likes a latrine queen.


Good advice.

Listen, I ignored your reference to my wife before
because I took what you said as humor, but if you
have an issue with who I choose as my wife then
we can go there. Are you a homophobic hater?

People are all the same on the inside, and we are
all different on the outside. Sadly, people like to
focus the latter and ignore the former.



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 09:47 PM
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originally posted by: visitedbythem
Now you are refering to your Transvestite wife as crazy and threatening to divorce him. I take offence to that! You are being unkind and downright cruel to him. Marriage is for life. You should think about it from his perspective, afterall, it isnt easy being married to you.


Thanks for that.

It isn't easy being married to me, your right.

Listen my friend, you need to show some respect.
My wife is legally a female, and it is not okay for
you to continue to reference male pronouns.

You are only displaying your own ignorance.



You have been pigheaded toward him and selfish. He stays home and cleans house, slaves over a hot stove to be a perfect homemake and wife for you. And how do you repay that? Burger king and Star wars? Thats just plain disrespectful. He didnt marry you for your money obviously. And your personality leaves something to be ...... Well you get the picture. Be a little more sensitive with his feelings. Compliment him on his boobs and nice butt. And when you leave for your job at walmart, wake him up with a nice goodbye and a french kiss, and a goose to the bootie. Tell him that you really care and that all other men are nothing compared to him/ Good luck


You're funny.

It is funny because it is true, and pathetic.
If you said I was living in a cartoon world
then I would have to agree with you.

Someone asked me the other day if I like to
play video games, and I said, "No, I think this
life is just one big video game and I'm still
try to figure out how to place that game."

Real Talk.



posted on Dec, 19 2015 @ 09:48 PM
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originally posted by: wasaka

originally posted by: visitedbythem
So what you need todo to keep your career at walmart is this. Apologise to your boss. Beg his forgivness. quit the drug use, and stay out of the latrine except when doing a number 1 or a number 2. Get over yourself

No one likes a latrine queen.


Good advice.

Listen, I ignored your reference to my wife before
because I took what you said as humor, but if you
have an issue with who I choose as my wife then
we can go there. Are you a homophobic hater?

People are all the same on the inside, and we are
all different on the outside. Sadly, people like to
focus the latter and ignore the former.





Ive had 4 or 5 good buddies that were gay, One was my boss. Im not. I think that 4 of them may have lost their lives but the x boss is still alive. They died from aids. 3 of them anyway, one shot himself. These were my friends from the 70s/ Am I afraid of gays? I dont think so



posted on Dec, 20 2015 @ 12:32 AM
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a reply to: tinyDAWK

I have been fortunate to have turned a job into a career. I won't be seeking a job until I have retired and completed reading War and Peace.



posted on Dec, 20 2015 @ 12:47 AM
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a reply to: wasaka

I talk to my animals as though they are human beings. No one is beneath me.

I get the feeling you have a filter of anger that distorts anything said to you.

How would getting fired be doing you a favor?

Nevermind.

I wish you a future of good will, love, merriment, and fortune. Sincerely.



posted on Dec, 20 2015 @ 10:26 AM
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www.abovetopsecret.com...

I hope the OP might want to re-read some of the suggestions and observations he so eloquently voiced in this thread, seeing how he pledges to rid the world of toxic and psychic pain, anger and evil. And, what better time than the holiday season to revisit these ideas of peace and goodwill towards others.
edit on 20-12-2015 by jdb51 because: (no reason given)

edit on 20-12-2015 by jdb51 because: correction



posted on Dec, 20 2015 @ 12:55 PM
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originally posted by: NewzNose
a reply to: wasaka

How would getting fired be doing you a favor?

Nevermind.


You said "I would fire you and have no regrets."

I said, "I would let you fire me and have no regrets."

It would be doing me a favor because if you can't talk
to me the way to talk to your animal friends (with
a little humanity) then I would not want to work
for you way... do try to follow along.

It starts with RESPECT, give it and you receive it.

I've worked for a lot of sale companies that love
to fire people. In every case, the are doing the
employee a favor... setting the free to find a
better job. Sometime they fire people just to
make their ego feel powerful--this happened
a lot of that last job (where I called the cops).

I consider telling the boss to go "F" himself to
be the last Amerikan freedom we have left.
Reading the replies to this thread make me
think a lot of people are out of touch with
how bad the job market really is, and what
it is like to work in phone room.

I wouldn't want anyone to have to deal with
the crap I'm had to deal with the last six months.
Not even my worst enemy.



posted on Dec, 20 2015 @ 01:35 PM
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originally posted by: jdb51
Judging from the OP's prior threads regarding his interactions with management, it sounds like someone has a Napoleonic complex.


I like to call it KNS or "Khan Noonien Singh Complex".
en.wikipedia.org...



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