posted on Nov, 24 2015 @ 11:13 AM
a reply to: solongandgoodnight
Life is a temporary state in the Grand Plan. Our lives are but a blink and then we are gone. If we are lucky, we go first, but that in itself causes
others who know and love you to suffer the loss. They then learn, as you have, how very precious and miraculous waking every day truly is.
Tell the people you love, just that. And tell them often. Hug. Big, body to body hugs giving no care to who may be watching. This is YOUR loved
one! Break bread together, either alone or with others in your shared circle. Laugh a lot. Laugh until you belly hurts. This is good for you.
Communicate often...just to say "hey, thinking about you", etc....and end with a sincere "I love you" dude...sis...bro..cuz...dad...mom...sister...my
friend, whichever is abblicable.
Share yourself often and allow those who love and care for you to share themself. Often
Take back your life. It is not about your work, your house, your bank account. It is 100% about the love and kindness you give to others and allow
others to give it back to you.
When you do this, you suffer loss differently. While their physical self can no longer be interactive with you, your shared experiences of love and
caring will remain with you and ease the saddness.
I am off to hug my family members. I challenge all who read this to embrace your people today as well.