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originally posted by: Astyanax
a reply to: Layaly
Do not allow yourself to be estranged from your parents. They will get sick or die and then you will be prey to guilt, remorse and self-loathing for the rest of your life.
Why should you have guilt for cutting a cord to beings who do not love you and only manipulate you.
...I think they are the way they are because they also had terrible childhood...
I need someone to make me cause I can't cope anymore (it's not emotional so much either so please don't think I am a sad sack)
originally posted by: Astyanax
a reply to: LittleByLittle
Why should you have guilt for cutting a cord to beings who do not love you and only manipulate you.
Why should you? I don't know. But it happens, as many who thought they could escape it by just walking away have found out to their cost.
It's just the way we're constituted. And love is a complex thing.
It is ok to be neutral and disconnected to all souls in existence if they behave insanely. Cut the cord and just wait until the souls have grown up. Some souls will not grow up until they understand boundaries and have self awareness.
If we assume that your soul moves on to another experience then sooner or later you/me and everyone else will get a chance to fix whatever need fixing.
originally posted by: Layaly
I wished I felt angry or had rage to face it
originally posted by: Layaly
a reply to: LittleByLittle
It is ok to be neutral and disconnected to all souls in existence if they behave insanely. Cut the cord and just wait until the souls have grown up. Some souls will not grow up until they understand boundaries and have self awareness.
I don't fully understand can you please explain more
The understand boundaries bit
And again thank you
*everyone
It is ok to be neutral and disconnected to all souls in existence if they behave insanely.