a reply to: anobody
A lot of factors come into this and only be down to yourself to use your instincts to succeed
Physical attraction is very important (as shallow as it is). If you are very overweight, unhealthy etc etc, and you are trying to go for a the
supermodel look, then you will have very little chance. This is just an example. So you need to weigh up what you look like and what the type you are
going for is like and see if realistically if "you suit each other"
Tapping into peoples sense of humor is always a fantastic ice breaker and good way to build relationships with friends, work colleagues, customers,
clients. Guess what???, works amazing for girls. Don't be too cheesy and be more witty if this suites your personality type.
Maybe look at your circle of friends, if you feel lonely and don't have many friends and more of a chill alone on the computer type, then try get out
and look for a group of friends that share the same interest. You will naturally meet new people including potential suitor..
Women like to know they are safe and can be looked after, if you are inexperienced in certain areas it may cast doubt as to "how much of a man you
are" . . Maybe look to get a sex buddy rather than a "relationship" save that until you have had more experience. Lots of girls enjoy no strings
attached sex, especially with people they trust and wont go around speaking about them. I don't mean 1 night stands i mean a friend with benefits. the
more comfortable they and you are, the more you both will want to experiment new things also.
if you think you both get on and you tapped into her sense of humor and she is showing signs like, stroking hair, looking into your eyes, giving a
lot of verbal nods and genuine smiles as you talk etc. (not all at the same time of course) then ask her like she is a friend if you want to link up
one time next week. If she agrees to meet you outside of studies its a good sign.
i personally find mature women age around 34-40 are easier to mutual have a good time together. Men peak around 17-22, women peak around 36-39 years
old. You tend to get mature women who like innocent men and had enough of the other. maybe looks for older friend group to enable you to get
opportunities to meet new people.
I think you should stop putting yourself down. You posted on ATS publicly to millions / billions of people your "personal problem" which can be a very
embarrassing topic. You have a lot of confidence to do that in the first place. Give yourself credit and beilve yourself more
out of all the above i would say. . humor, group of friends, and beilve in yourself. the rest will come naturally.
please note this is all opinionated and i apologies of my views are not line with other ATS users. No harm intended in the slightest