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originally posted by: Gazrok
Thing is, this can change after years of marriage, kids, other responsibilities, etc.
My wife always compains there isn't time for it...
yet there is always time to watch TV....
Here's the thing, something else I'd much rather do than watch even my favorite show....at least on a somewhat regular basis. She just doesn't get that.
And then folks wonder why partners cheat....too funny. Not that I do. I don't. But still....given the opportunity, I'm not so sure my defenses would hold like they used to.
originally posted by: eletheia
Men want SEX ... Women want ROMANCE/LOVE give her what she wants
and you get what you want .
originally posted by: Nyiah
If that's not a stereotype against men, I don't know what is.
Different people want different levels & blends of carnal sex & tender lovin'/romance, but nearly everyone, men included, wants to be loved.
Romance & love are not the same thing to me. I don't need to be shown through "romantic" candlelit meals & flowers that I'm loved (my husband's companionship tells me that) I personally rank the carnal pounce-like-animals sex a bit higher in desire than romantic gestures, but you probably have those reversed in order of want/importance, correct? Well, you're more like my husband & less like me regarding sex than you think.