posted on Oct, 1 2015 @ 10:06 AM
OP lets face it you want to say something
What you are really looking for is validation that you should say something and some idea of how you say it with out being the crazy one.
Its quite simple,
you invite baby and mummy over to yours for a coffee and you have a chat "ooohhhh what a lovely bundle of joy" and all that crap. Then you lie, you
start spinning some BS about how little baby is the first baby in since your sisters kid and then you get the "what age is he then" and then you
said...... "died of cot death at 7 months".
you open up a conversation that allows you to let slip in conversation that your fake sis's fake doctor said it might have been the excessive use of
fake fabric softer that caused the fake little one to die. Then you start with how you and you fake sis starting looking into it, about how dangerous
it is and so on.
You don't even mention her overuse of fabric softener because one of two things will happen
She will either say nothing but in the back of her mind next time she puts that softener in the washer think about your conversation and either put
less or not put it in atoll.
She will say to you "omg i use 3 bottles a week", at which point you say "oooohh do you, check out this website this is where me and my fake sis got
If you even try to say "hey your sheets smell amazing you must use loads..... be careful" she will smell a rat, by our very nature we humans do not
like being told when we are doing something wrong, we put up our defences. This way she does not even know you what you have done.
Might seem a little underhanded and dishonest but you get to feel a little better about informing her of these dangers with out seeming crazy and you
never know you might grow a little closer to your neighbour.
edit on 1-10-2015 by OtherSideOfTheCoin because: (no reason given)