posted on Sep, 26 2015 @ 09:38 AM
Hate to say this, but from what I can gather, she's phasing you out. She is not so subtly showing you that her family and doing what they want is more
important. Now, I'm no expert, but after recently going through a breakup after almost 20 years of marriage, I know the signs and your's is neon.
Knowing you had plans for her birthday and then blaming you for being upset when a member of her family sabotaged them, is a big red flag. To
me, it means she no longer cares if you spend time together, because she doesn't want to spend time together.
On the other hand, you said you've been going through a rough spell and it may be just that she's hurt and needs "her people" around to comfort her.
Wait a couple weeks and see how it goes.