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I'm only referring to a few men that have hurt one woman who is no longer a part of my life.
originally posted by: burdman30ott6
a reply to: LookingForABetterLife
And to all you young men out there, if you ever hold open a door for a lady, pull out her chair for her, or offer to assist her in something and she responds with anger or spite, turn 180 degrees and run like hell Do not look back, do not try to figure it out, and for the love of God do not question your assistance because you're not the one who did anything wrong. You don't ever wanna pair up with crazy, anyway.
I had never seen this behavior or reaction until I was in college, held open a door for a young female professor, was yelled at by her for "marginalizing her equality" then got yelled at a second time when I shut the door in her face and said "OK, have it your way."
originally posted by: LookingForABetterLife
This is all about a friend of mine who has been mistreated by men since she was 5 years old. The ones she calls boyfriends or lovers are all the some type as she has ever known. Her mother's boyfriends and other family started all of this. Her mother dealt with this by staying drunk most of the time.
I've tried to be there for her to take her away from all of this but she didn't understand my intentions and has since moved away.