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originally posted by: Pitou
So we've known each other for quite a while and we started dating. Then, he suddenly hardly ever wants to meet (like, 30 mins in 3 weeks) yet pretends he wants to and sends cute emojis etc.
I don't really fall for it anymore but he wanted to meet today. Fine then. Well, no, ain't happening. So asshole, you wanna keep me on a leash, make sure I feel crappy for being 6th priority or something, and have me not making any definite plans for the weekend because you *might* wanna see me? Jeez dude, if you don't want to meet me just f**ng say so. What kind of wuss are you. I'm just pissed off about this because I don't deserve this and this was one of the people/guys I actually liked and felt attracted to. And he gave me hope. I never keep people on a leash and I try to be as respectful as possible when interacting with others, what is this crap. I'm not fuming with rage, but I do feel mistreated and pissed off. There's no danger in telling me you don't want to see me. Really, no. And it's not an 'easy way of letting go' or something, it's actually mean and makes it all take longer. I'm done with this. I just asked on whatsapp 'hmm I don't think you want it anyway?'
I mean, it's wasted time, sh**y and disrespectful. I hate this!