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Until then there are very real reasons people feel uncomfortable being nude around people with opposite physical tools from their own. That's really what this is about.
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: Reallyfolks
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Mugly
teens see each others private areas all the time in a school locker room and they have a problem with it
Yep because of society. I am merely pointing out the difference.
Americans are such prudes. We even censor boobs on T.V.
Actually the benefit of not seeing teenagers with their pants sagging down their butts might be worth it. Until then there are very real reasons people feel uncomfortable being nude around people with opposite physical tools from their own. That's really what this is about.
I agree with you on the baggy pants. It just looks so stupid. We are a look oriented society and are judged almost instantly on how we present ourselves.
But, what is the reason to feel uncomfortable being nude - - - other then society conditioning?
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Reallyfolks
Until then there are very real reasons people feel uncomfortable being nude around people with opposite physical tools from their own. That's really what this is about.
I understand that. I've offered a solution that I thought was the best solution. Make a private stall or room IN girls locker room so that way she will feel part of it and nobody can see each other.
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Reallyfolks
Until then there are very real reasons people feel uncomfortable being nude around people with opposite physical tools from their own. That's really what this is about.
I understand that. I've offered a solution that I thought was the best solution. Make a private stall or room IN girls locker room so that way she will feel part of it and nobody can see each other.
So isolation in the locker room instead of out is the solution even though isolation still exists?
originally posted by: Mugly
oh i get it.
so as soon as you go through youre change, everyone else must follow?
if you decide at 17 years and a day that the time is right to use the 'other' facility, everyone else just has to automatically be comfortable with it?
i get it.
only your feelings matter
originally posted by: Reallyfolks
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Reallyfolks
Until then there are very real reasons people feel uncomfortable being nude around people with opposite physical tools from their own. That's really what this is about.
I understand that. I've offered a solution that I thought was the best solution. Make a private stall or room IN girls locker room so that way she will feel part of it and nobody can see each other.
Don't know the logistics of getting that done, but Lila was given access to a private facility with equal services and it wasn't good enough for her. So isolation in the locker room instead of out is the solution even though isolation still exists?
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Annee
Do we know they don't have private stalls?
Now that's a good question. Hmm.
originally posted by: frostie
You can still see Her/His male part bulge in the dress it was wearing....
People if it is still biologically a Male then it cant be changing with women!!
As of now consider it a cross-dresser.
I use "it" in a non-derogatory manner.
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Reallyfolks
So isolation in the locker room instead of out is the solution even though isolation still exists?
Not so much of an isolation. Maybe not a room just stall and she can still talk to them.
Like I said, to me it seems the best solution to satisfy both sides.
If the girls are uncomfortable with someone having opposite tools in the locker room and it causes them them and tension we can't change that.
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: Reallyfolks
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Reallyfolks
Until then there are very real reasons people feel uncomfortable being nude around people with opposite physical tools from their own. That's really what this is about.
I understand that. I've offered a solution that I thought was the best solution. Make a private stall or room IN girls locker room so that way she will feel part of it and nobody can see each other.
Don't know the logistics of getting that done, but Lila was given access to a private facility with equal services and it wasn't good enough for her. So isolation in the locker room instead of out is the solution even though isolation still exists?
NO. She was allowed to use a Neutral Gender bathroom - - not in the girls locker room.
Where was it? The other side of the campus?
originally posted by: Deaf Alien
a reply to: Reallyfolks
If the girls are uncomfortable with someone having opposite tools in the locker room and it causes them them and tension we can't change that.
Why be uncomfortable with what you can't see?