a reply to: Chadwickus
BTW, if you are single and looking, I can help with that.
I made a thread about online dating a couple weeks ago, I just started it a few days before the thread.
In the couple of weeks since, I have not only met several very nice local ladies in small town Podunk indiana, but hopefully "the one".
If you are interested in testing the waters, just DL POF (plentyoffish).
I guarantee you you get a date within a couple of days.
Especially if in a city.
I'm in a town of barely over 10,000.
I got 5 potential dates in a couple days.
Dropped them all.... Long story.
Went on 3 dates in the next week.
Have 5 more lined up, but will likely only go on one, with the girl I met already.
If you work in public, it is perfect.
Ladies like options, especially, safe options.
Chat with them on POF, if you guys hit it off, just leave your number and a message like " we really seemed to hit it off, call or text me if you
They won't call but will text all but definitely.
At that point text about a day or two, then give them a perfectly safe option.
Like " I work at X ,give them your schedule and say something like " just stop by anytime I'm there, if you like what you see, say hi, if not just
walk away, no worries for either of us. "
It has worked every time for me.
I have a lot more options than I would have thought in so small and town.
I am honestly picking and choosing.
I'm not looking for random sex, I am looking for the real deal.
So far out of about I would say 30 women, 6 were " carders".
" I just want to make sure your not a weirdo, I have a site for background checks, just need your name birthday social and credit card number "
Any variation on the above, just break contact, it is always a scam, ALWAYS!!!!!
Also avoid any woman that sends you "sexts" before you have at least gone on a date or a few ( this is relative to your experience on said date).
Just because you guys have sex on the first date is not necessarily a red flag.
Maybe she just really likes you as well, and nature happened.
You are a guy, you know what it is like when the right buttons get pushed.
Do not be jealous or judgmental if she is on POF while you guys are getting to know eachother.
Remember, you are both trying to find that one person that was molded just for you.
It is all trial and error.
But you WIll meet many nice woman.
If you have any questions about online dating just PM me.
The learning curve is crushingly steep.
I had no help or advice, only witts and intelligence to protect me.
Then I asked ATS and got some very good advice.
Don't forget you can PM me anytime.
I have learned much in a short time.
edit on 20-8-2015 by johnwick because: Mother #ing autocorrect, I hate you so much so often!!!!!