Originally posted by kode
Hey Thinker your asking for trouble there mate, but you do have some solid points there are women out there that are exactly as you described
even the most simple pretty and "oh im so lovely" of them on the quite to there mates say "yeah but he’s loaded".
The one's i can never get to grips with are the ones that find the troublemakers attractive. Why?
Somehow being a trouble maker, have temper problems. Seems to project a dominate behaviour, masculine behaviour. I also feel that women are passive
physically, but mentallity they are much like the trouble making men. I also believe this makes them have something in common. Then you go into
attraction. Women want to be desired, i mean by all men. The women is turned off by a man that loves her, he is seen as needy and being too nice,
boring. It's kinda like heart gaining game. Once the women has you, your heart she kinda get bored and becomes disinterested. But once you forgfot to
call her, go out with other women and bang other women. She becomes jealous because she know feel's like she is not special and feel's unattractive
and ugly. So what she does improves her looks and then try's to win back her the male even tough he had commit adultery. She does this until she
gains his heart then repeats the process..
This why you get single women trying bang husband's of other wifes. They are trying to see their value in society in trying to see if a man will
betray his wife in order to be with her. If he does, the women will feel special because he cheated on his wife her and so she feel attractive and
If you watch those reality television shows where there is one man and a heap of women. You will see that all the women want the man. Why? because
women want to win, they want to be better then other women and want to feel desired. Even though she has no interest in Him!.
Now if you change the it and have one women, and a heap of men. 95% of men already make the decission they don't want her. They don't like her.
So they will not be competive for the female. Simply because if they don't like, they will not chase. But women on the other hand chase, for a win,
to see if they are desired, or just to say to the other women i won him. ha ah. But i don't liek him .
This also can be thrown in the dating the sence. The women could be dating a guy and have no interest, just to have a boyfriend at the time, so she
doesn't feel inferior to her other female friends or lonely. She of course doesn't tell him this. This simply using the male, until something better
comes along. Rememember if you like food, you can always taste all the fruits until u get one you like. Products.men are simply that to women, a thing
that serves a purpose. But men are difference they lookup women are indivuduals, not products and don't dump, use until something comes better? why
because men are want good in this world.
If the women was a shepard she would leave a weak lamb behind to dye and buy a new one.
If the man was a shepard, he would pick up the weak lamb and take it home and nurse it, then buy a new one.
Whats the difference?
Well the women see's men as expenable objects and is loveless
The man see's a light in everything, and loves everything.
As you can see you can start to see the women is morally not as high as men.
This explain's why they date/marriage thugs and trouble makers. She doesn't really care for morall men. But power, domince, masculinity and
She tends to desire immorality more then morality it's self. If you look upon bisexual trends women tend want to try it. Men are just no way, because
of their moral instict and you don't see normal men dating female thugs.
You can fix marriage, simply because the women is immoral. Before women where forced to follow the male iway of marriage. Marriage was ok. But ever
since she got her freedom. Her wants became more important then the man's and their she changed the world and left the man
The man's want's was always marriage and familiy uion. The man is moral being and loves. His desires is marriage and union. He follows morality and
the good of the world. This is why he does not leave his wife, or desterst his family. Unlike the women, who cares nothing for the man but only her
offspring and her desires. She does not desire morality, good or ethical standards. But the desires the oppsite of what man desires.
Thsi is why u have this divorce problem. Simply because women can not love good and therefor can not love at alll.
[edit on 30-12-2004 by Thinker]
[edit on 30-12-2004 by Thinker]