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originally posted by: TrueBrit
a reply to: Cuervo
Me personally, I refuse to hang out any place where people give a crap either way.
I like having a mixture of different folk around, it makes for better conversation, involving a wider total pool of experience!
originally posted by: Cuervo
I'm confused by the general tone of this thread.
It seems we are talking about flamboyant dudes and masculine chicks and just saying they are "pretending to be gay". Is that what the confusion is here or are you all talking about two different things and not realizing it?
There's no such thing as "acting gay" other than pretending to be attracted to your own sex. I thought that's what the OP was talking about. Some of you are confusing stereotypes with reality, I think.
I know some pretty jockish gay dudes and even more flamboyant straight guys. Masculinity/femininity and sexuality are mutually exclusive concepts.