posted on Jul, 14 2015 @ 12:01 PM
So I've posted a little about my relationship with a friends brother. It became a huge mess over really stupid stuff and we stopped seeing each
other. I had not heard from him in a month. I was upset, obviously because I had no idea what was going on. All I knew was my friend, his sister,
betrayed me. I forgive her but it still made things a mess!
Well two weeks ago HE SHOWED UP MY DOOR, UNANNOUNCED! I heard a knock and when I answered and saw him I shut the door. Lol I was thinking, "omg what
is he doing here!" He laughed and said, " ok we can talk through the door." I of course opened the door back up and let him in. The first the he
said to me was that he loved me and was in love with me and couldn't be without me. He didn't care what anyone thought, including his family. I was
FLOORED. I have never had any man make that kind of love declaration in my life.. I remember my jaw being wide open in shock. Lol My brain was
processing everything and I couldn't believe it. It turns out he was as miserable as I was that month! Because we had not spoken I had no idea what
he was thinking and it drove me crazy but deep down in some way I felt he would come around at some point. I was still upset but I had this gut
feeling we would end up together one day again, turns out I was right and it was sooner than later!
It's crazy how this whole situation has been. Each time we ended up back with each other and this last time was the best! The way he came here and
expressed his feelings was amazing. I know it was hard for him to make that choice with his family but they do know we make each other very happy and
we love each other. I've loved him for ten years as a friend and always had a crush on him you could say. I just never went there before because
he's my friends brother. Now we are so happy together. We both talk about the connection we feel that we never felt before. I look at pics of all of
us from years ago and you can see the chemistry, no wonder people thought we were always a couple. Lol
I still have not spoken to his family but that will come in time. We have all known each for years and the situation is a bit nuts but we have both
agreed to let that go and worry about us right now. His family knows me and how I am. It's just the fact my ex is part of this that makes it
difficult but in time things will work out. Not worried or mad at them.
I've always been a hopeless romantic I won't lie. I've dated and loved a few and the thing is I knew deep down the love wasn't reciprocated n
those previous relationships but the sappy romantic in me thought I could change that, of course I didn't. I did however learn from each experience
and I have no regrets nor am I bitter towards any ex. It's a lesson learned and now I'm with who I am suppose to be with.
It is such a wonderful feeling when you can feel the love from another. I can't begin to describe it. I've never had this kind of love before and
it's all so crazy with our history as friends. He knows my faults and hard times and doesn't judge me. He accepts me for me. He's really good at
reassuring me and keeping my mind calm. It's great. I can be so open with him and he's not scared off like so many have been. We have a lot in
common and he's the first guy I've ever been with that knows ATS type topics and can actually discuss them. Lol it's great! We compliment each
other in so many ways and our views on relationships and family are the same. He's extremely supportive emotionally and I need that. I'm an
emotional Scorpio! I can't help it lol
So you never ever know when love will find you! It could be there already and it's just not your time. My honey says that to me. We both felt
something before but we both needed to grow as individuals and now is our time. He is so good with my son as well, which is important. He's a great
man and I'm so happy he made his choice!
Not to mention he quoted my favorite scene from "The Notebook" when he showed up. I was like OH NO YOU DIDNT!