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It will be as it SHOULD be for all couples, regardless of sex. The concept of female bias when it comes to divorce/custody/property is infuriating.
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Gryphon66
a reply to: queenofswords
I introduce my partner as "my partner."
When we get married in a few years, he will be "my husband."
Perhaps there is an inequity in the structure of the laws when your so-called "wifely extras" are factored in?
He will be your husband, and you will be his husband? If you adopt a child, then get a divorce, who will get the child? Now, the courts usually give the wife custody with visitation by the father (husband) and child support? She usually gets the house as well.
How will that work in a same-sex scenario?
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Gryphon66
a reply to: queenofswords
I introduce my partner as "my partner."
When we get married in a few years, he will be "my husband."
Perhaps there is an inequity in the structure of the laws when your so-called "wifely extras" are factored in?
He will be your husband, and you will be his husband? If you adopt a child, then get a divorce, who will get the child? Now, the courts usually give the wife custody with visitation by the father (husband) and child support? She usually gets the house as well.
How will that work in a same-sex scenario?
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Gryphon66
a reply to: queenofswords
I introduce my partner as "my partner."
When we get married in a few years, he will be "my husband."
Perhaps there is an inequity in the structure of the laws when your so-called "wifely extras" are factored in?
He will be your husband, and you will be his husband? If you adopt a child, then get a divorce, who will get the child? Now, the courts usually give the wife custody with visitation by the father (husband) and child support? She usually gets the house as well.
How will that work in a same-sex scenario?
originally posted by: Gryphon66
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Gryphon66
a reply to: queenofswords
I introduce my partner as "my partner."
When we get married in a few years, he will be "my husband."
Perhaps there is an inequity in the structure of the laws when your so-called "wifely extras" are factored in?
He will be your husband, and you will be his husband? If you adopt a child, then get a divorce, who will get the child? Now, the courts usually give the wife custody with visitation by the father (husband) and child support? She usually gets the house as well.
How will that work in a same-sex scenario?
It is hardly "automatic" that women always receive custody at this point in history.
originally posted by: Shamrock6
As much as it irritates people, semantics count when it comes to the wording of a law. I don't see why "spouse" is some horrible alternative to "husband" of "wife."
originally posted by: queenofswords
a reply to: Gryphon66
Only 1 in 6 fathers get custody of the children. The law leans toward the mother receiving custody along with child support....yes, even nowadays.
A battle for custody is extremely expensive. I can now see a new specialty on the horizon...lawyers who specialize in the unique problems of same-sex divorces. $$$$$$
originally posted by: ketsuko
Should we next demand that we abolish the words "cat" and "dog" in the name of "companion animal equality?"
originally posted by: Gryphon66
a reply to: theantediluvian
And Texan ...
Well, I wouldn't touch anything out of the Chattahoochee ... maybe the North Georgia lakes ... when I was kid we ate catfish out of the local creeks all the time ...
... but still not the Chattahoochee, not even 40 years ago ...
originally posted by: Gryphon66
a reply to: ketsuko
Do you ever use the word "spouse" to refer to your husband?
Has your husband ever used the word "spouse" to refer to you?
Aside from taking the opportunity to grind your usual axes, what is the big deal to you if "spouse" is added to the laws so that they address everyone equally?
originally posted by: queenofswords
a reply to: ScientificRailgun
Oh, it will be different. What if both husbands are capable and competent? What if both husbands are not in the least bit destitute? The female aspect will now be removed and same-sex divorce with children involved is going to line the pockets of lots of attorneys, especially those who "specialize" in same-sex divorce.
Courts generally give custody to the mother, not because the mother may have more rights to the children, but because the mother is usually seen as the more nurturing caregiver. The female of our species will die to protect her young. She is the one that suckled her infant, provided the physical and emotional element to help it thrive. Unless a woman can be shown as unfit, 1 out of 6 times the courts will assign custody to the mother.