a reply to: ChaoticOrder
I have compiled an arguably short list of traits that I look for in a women, so my question is: does a women like this exist on the face of this
planet or am I just totally asking for the impossible and should I lower my standards?
A woman like that does not exist. You should focus on whats important, things like money, or social standards, and really go for what women have to
offer, basically size of boobies or nice ass, beyond that you can pretty much do everything else for yourself or by yourself. You know stick to whats
Am I kidding or am I just yanking your chain?
But in all realities you will likely go farther with then then all that other crap women spew. There is a reason why those who actually believed any
of it never go anywere, and those who any of it does not even register into seem to have no issue and especially in getting females.
So ya the answer to that first question is the second part of the question, yanking chains. Be aware women do it often and that's one of the real
priorities they look for when getting with a guy, ability to yank there chain. Its for the most part the basis of relationships, its not good its not
bad, it is what it is. And if done right should keep things in equilibrium.
I mean really look at your list, and think do you really want or think women will care anything for that. I mean others have said it on this thread,
that one orangetom person, the guy seems to be in a lot of these relationship threads, but he is right no female would want to be with somebody they
have to put effort into. Nor are they capable of it, as untold numbers of the whole "change him" crowd has shown, that it is impossible.
Its just not in there nature, so much so that they do not know or can conceive of the meaning of it, they still think hanging around and males coming
to them is putting in effort. And like that other zzazafrazz person said, women like somebody who makes them laugh. Which is female speak and the
actual real manifestation in this physical reality for exactly what that orangetom person said. Because you will never make anybody laugh when your
overburdened and always stretching and reaching for things. Its kind of like those people who tell you to smile while your sitting knee deep in sewage
and have a million issues to deal with.
You see how that works, one has to make it work, while the other is merely the recipient of the product. The difference between males and
females in this human mating game you all play.
Reality of things, its one thing most females never have to deal with, or at least not in this capacity. They generally have to deal with it
after the fact, when the luster runs out and after nature runs its course. Its a bit backwards from the way males have it.
Basically your not going to get any of that by burdening yourself with lists. You can not afford to any of that, both literally and figuratively
And beyond that you go into the world of feminine intentions, which are nice for females, as they thrive of it. But will not work for you as you have
to work for your options, were as the greater majority of females don't. What you should do is forget all this #, most of it is nonesense anyways,
generations and social conditioning all based on false precepts.
It was not in till this age some few hundreads of years ago that men even started thinking in terms of good for them females, and making lists like
females do. Think on that for a while. If you do not not, I am quite sure governments and plenty of groups out there will think on it for you.
So yes. What I am saying is. Do as you will, its bound to happen that you will run into one eventually. Just dont expect women to understand certain
things, they are quite incapable of it. As such you should not make lists, or if you do keep them to 2 or must haves long, and the rest will be a hit
or miss. So ya, its not that your to picky, its that your lists even as basic as they are, well there not realistic when dealing with women, and
really have little to do with anything as there are hundreds if not thousands of other factors equating into the equation of why people find each
other or get together.
And also you should know that the things people think they want and the things they really want are two different things. Also the same goes for the
things they think they are, or are like, those two lists are generally different as well. In a lot of cases completely at opposites. Most especially
this applies to females, but also to you as well. You just dont know it yet, and most dont unless they have to confront that fact. In females chances
are they never will have to. In males its pretty much a given that they will in some form one way or another.
This relationship thing is a headache anyways. Just do your thing and I am sure things will come together eventually.