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originally posted by: grandmakdw
If you choose to marry her and have children. Realize you will likely leave her a widow for 20+ years. Prepare for that with good insurance and a large nest egg to care for her and any children you have.
Other than that, good luck.
originally posted by: Nyiah
I have never had and still have zero desire to go club/bar-hopping, go Girls Gone Wild drunken party-animal nuts or be the town doorknob (where everyone has a turn) Had I gone that route, I'd have missed out on far more that matters much more on a fundamental level than a series of shallow ventures.
Maturity is either already there, or it isn't. Maybe it'll come to her in due time.
originally posted by: Klassified
I think there are cases where age can help, more than hurt. Be smart, be alert, and be mindful of which head is doing the thinking. I was once "involved" with a woman more than 20 years my senior. I have fond memories of her to this day.
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