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Some advice needed age difference in relationships.

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posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 09:57 AM
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a reply to: boymonkey74

Go for it, man. That's my advice.




posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:03 AM
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a reply to: Skid Mark

i though u hate women



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:09 AM
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a reply to: boymonkey74

It's a few pages back, so hopefully you get this. My wife is 11 years younger than me. After so long, you realize age is truly just a number. If you're attracted to each other, get along well, and both want it I say go for it.

Besides, if you don't, someone else will.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:18 AM
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a reply to: Layaly

Hell no. I love women. You must be talking about the one thread Greathouse did. I was joking.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:25 AM
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What if I told you that you already have the answer to your query?



Respectfully,
EOS



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:28 AM
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Age does not matter . Your emotions are what matters.Compatibility and other things play into it . How do I know? I am in my fifties and my wife is 27 . We have been married 7 wonderful years



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:52 AM
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I say go for it. It might not be easy, but anything worth something in life never is, just enjoy it and if doesn't work out your in no worse a position than you were before. As long as your both honest with each other and have your eyes wide open from the get go then enjoy it while the opportunity is there.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 10:58 AM
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Advice my dad told me:

Don't get your honey, where you make your money. However, if you do, make sure you tear dat azz up. Women will talk (especially a 20 something) and you don't want any snickering at you when you walk by...

Just saying.
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posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 11:47 AM
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a reply to: TerryMcGuire

Nah I'm a great drunk and she knows what I'm like so sI gotta booze tonight to give me some dutch courage.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 12:06 PM
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If you choose to marry her and have children. Realize you will likely leave her a widow for 20+ years. Prepare for that with good insurance and a large nest egg to care for her and any children you have.

Other than that, good luck.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 12:07 PM
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a reply to: grandmakdw

Lol lets not get ahead of ourselves eh lol.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 12:27 PM
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a reply to: boymonkey74

Fine enough. Just so it will never be said that I didn't warn you. Here's hoping I am wrong.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 12:27 PM
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I had this experience a couple of years ago. The one thing I can say is that the younger ones are still in flux(interests, personality and the like). They change quickly, while us old buggers remain the same. She may not tire of you, she may, you may of her as well. Just a caveat.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 01:47 PM
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originally posted by: grandmakdw
Realize you will likely leave her a widow for 20+ years.


All the booze has pre-embalmed him so he will most certainly outlast her.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 01:51 PM
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By all means, go for it stud. I might have to go get me one of those Spiderman costumes. Lol



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 01:54 PM
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when are u going????

isnt it like 8 pm there????

start shooting.. nothing worse that a guy who is not having fun when the girl is

START shaving bro.. less ats more you
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posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 02:45 PM
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I'm going to stick around to see how this plays out. Whatever happens, I wish you well.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 02:59 PM
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If it goes well. We won't hear about it until tomorrow. If it goes really well. We won't hear about it until Monday.

Either way. Good luck boymonkey74. However long this type of relationship lasts. It will be fun. Until its not. Then you will break up with her and she will straight up shank you with a knife or with words. Or she breaks up with you and your stuck chasing that young girl adrenaline rush forever. Or it stays fun and you live happily ever after. Its always worth a roll of the dice.
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posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 03:58 PM
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Go for it, if you are attracted to each other then why should you allow anything to get in the way of giving it a try, 20 years is quite a wide age gap but at 41 your still reasonably young and maybe you can gain more self confidence in knowing you can still attract a 20 year old babe. Also it may be that she finds older men more attractive in wich case you are a perfect match for her. Im 38 my girlfriend is a young looking 28 and there's never been any issues regarding the age gap between us so dont let it stop you. She could turn out to be the love of your life, and if not then at least you'll have no regrets.



posted on Jun, 19 2015 @ 04:47 PM
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Good luck. I would say go for it, in the short term, if you didn't work with each other.

I have found that the level of crazy increases the younger you go.



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