It's a few pages back, so hopefully you get this. My wife is 11 years younger than me. After so long, you realize age is truly just a number. If
you're attracted to each other, get along well, and both want it I say go for it.
I say go for it. It might not be easy, but anything worth something in life never is, just enjoy it and if doesn't work out your in no worse a
position than you were before. As long as your both honest with each other and have your eyes wide open from the get go then enjoy it while the
opportunity is there.
Don't get your honey, where you make your money. However, if you do, make sure you tear dat azz up. Women will talk (especially a 20 something) and
you don't want any snickering at you when you walk by...
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If you choose to marry her and have children. Realize you will likely leave her a widow for 20+ years. Prepare for that with good insurance and a
large nest egg to care for her and any children you have.
I had this experience a couple of years ago. The one thing I can say is that the younger ones are still in flux(interests, personality and the like).
They change quickly, while us old buggers remain the same. She may not tire of you, she may, you may of her as well. Just a caveat.
If it goes well. We won't hear about it until tomorrow. If it goes really well. We won't hear about it until Monday.
Either way. Good luck boymonkey74. However long this type of relationship lasts. It will be fun. Until its not. Then you will break up with her and
she will straight up shank you with a knife or with words. Or she breaks up with you and your stuck chasing that young girl adrenaline rush forever.
Or it stays fun and you live happily ever after. Its always worth a roll of the dice.
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Go for it, if you are attracted to each other then why should you allow anything to get in the way of giving it a try, 20 years is quite a wide age
gap but at 41 your still reasonably young and maybe you can gain more self confidence in knowing you can still attract a 20 year old babe. Also it may
be that she finds older men more attractive in wich case you are a perfect match for her. Im 38 my girlfriend is a young looking 28 and there's never
been any issues regarding the age gap between us so dont let it stop you. She could turn out to be the love of your life, and if not then at least
you'll have no regrets.
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