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The dude could afford to become a chick.
Most transwomen go through all of those things you brought up. I don't know her story (haven't had the chance to really follow it and it feels cliche for me to champion her right away) but I know that being a transwoman no HRT does not lead to any shortcuts like you listed. The objectifying (even more so, actually), the breast issues (most transwomens' breasts are grown just like yours), the mood swings, etc... mostly things that are caused by hormonal makeup which you share with transwomen.
The only example you gave that is exclusively a ciswoman issue is childbirth ones but... what are you saying to all the other women out there who either can't or choose not to have children? Are they not worthy of being called a woman, either?
And to think she won't be scrutinized on her looks is just ridiculous. She will be held to standards you were never expected to live up to and will be criticized every day for the rest of her life on everything she does or wear. If she looks haggard one day, people will say she makes a "bad" woman. If she looks gorgeous the next day, people will say she cheated and doesn't deserve her beauty.
Do you think she wouldn't have chosen to take your path to womanhood over the one she was forced to take? Do you think it was easier for her somehow? Did you have to live most of your womanhood with a penis? Try that for a while and see which life you prefer.
I know you didn't mean offense and I know you support the mental and physical health of people and want to see them happy but maybe just spend a little more time from that perspective and really try to imagine it. It's not a fun road.
Most of the negative opinions I hear about her seem to include something about the Kardasians.