posted on Apr, 27 2015 @ 09:27 AM
a reply to: pirhanna
I spent 15 years with a debilitating illness.. just no death or even risk of it.. and to be honest, how we feel about being in a relationship, is just
how we feel about our own selves.. and that feeling really is our own problem.
I finally just got tired of being alone.. I wanted a relationship.. but I knew what that relationship for another person would mean.. it is very
conflicting but that conflict is because of what we feel about our own worth.
Its hard to feel like you are worth something, when there are times you need help just to get to the bathroom.. that is OUR OWN hang-up! Its not
always another persons..
Its so weird, and I find it absolutely amazing that I found a man who loves me - for me! Because I saw myself as broken, somehow half a person.. yet
he never saw a half of anything.. to him.. I had great worth.. even if there were times the pain was so bad I couldn't get out of bed and he had to
make our dinner.. he thought it was great just to spend time lying in bed with me and watching tv..
how we see ourselves, is not how others do - especially if those others love us, for who we really are.. and we shouldn't let how we see ourselves
stop us from living, loving, and having what everyone else has.. a life worth living!
because somewhere, there is someone.. who thinks we are wonderful, just the way we are! (Amazingly enough!...lol)
edit on 27-4-2015 by
OpinionatedB because: (no reason given)