posted on Apr, 26 2015 @ 08:37 PM
a reply to: thesearchfortruth
The cold hard truth is: If People see something in you that they like, then they will accept you for that. And, you will behave differently depending
on the people you are with.
For example, how I behave with my fellow musicians is highly different than how I behave here on ATS; and how I behave at work is extremely different
than how I present myself here at ATS.
If you want to look at it from a dating standpoint - I actually found that it is better to go out on a date in your "element", as it will show the
person what you really are like. For example, if you are highly into music, you'd invite them to a concert in a genre you like. If you love nature,
head out to a local park. Not a fan of huge parties? Invite them to a "one on one" coffee date.
Also, remember - you don't normally go around broadcasting your biggest secrets to people, so don't be afraid to show your positives, and gradually,
as you become comfortable with the person or persons, they may see and accept your faults as well.
For me, the only time I am truly "myself" is if I am alone, or in a group of people that don't even know me.